this video I'm gonna be sharing with you three signs that you are trying too hard
to manifest what you want I'm also gonna show you how to make it so much easier
so that you don't have to try so hard and you can simply start to create from
a much easier paradigm welcome back to another video my name is Aaron and I
help people expand their consciousness now on this video I'm gonna be sharing
with you those three signs that you may be trying too hard to create what you
want your life and I'm gonna share with you ways of going around that to make it
so much easier now many times with the old-school way of thinking about the law
of attraction we have these preconceived notions about how the process of
manifestation is and if we believe that it is something that is hard we believe
that it's something that doesn't come easy then that's the kind of experience
that will create in our life now one of the most important parts of this process
and something that for a long time I wasn't really talking much about is that
of understanding the state of being how do we feel in relation to what we want
to experience because every subject is actually two subjects this is a
traditional Abraham Hicks type idea there is the subject of what you want
and then the lack of what you want so you could say that there's the subject
of are you being in a relationship and then you feeling lack of being in a
relationship so this is why it's so important because many times we try so
hard because we're coming at it from this point of view we're coming at it
from the point of view is I don't already have it and I really desire and
want it which reaffirms that we don't have it in the present moment and we
have to try very hard to then get to the place to where we do have it so this is
first off being aware of how you feel in relation to the goals that you have and
when you start to do that everything changes now when I first had the YouTube
channel and I was first talking about the law of attraction it was mainly
about just taking action and that's because I was rewarded for taking so
much action I started you know really putting a lot of energy
effort into what I was doing and I started to get a certain result out of
it and it was something that I was rewarded for so therefore I just kept
doing it and that was an important part of the process because I love doing what
I'm doing I love and am passionate about making videos so that energy in a way
became leverage now that is an important part of the process I believe but even
more important is the energy from which the action is being taken so many times
people say oh yeah take a lot of action but then if they learn and they're
taking action doing something that they hate doing they create a lot of
resistance they're coming from this paradigm that says I don't have what I
want I don't feel good about the process and therefore it creates a lot of
resistance along the way so the first sign that you are trying too hard to
manifest what you want is simply that you are feeling a lot of resistance
resistance is trying to be something different than the natural self the
natural self when you're doing what you're passionate about you found out
what that is it's very easy to align with doing it more and more because
there's a certain feeling behind it but if we come at it from the point of view
that we need to take a lot of action and not only take action but it's something
that we don't really enjoy doing then we create that resistance without even
knowing it so the good thing is that if you're feeling resistance resistance is
telling you that the way you are relating to the situation you're in or
to whatever you're doing is out of alignment so maybe you're doing
different actions maybe you're just thinking about it a different way now
there's normally two ways that this happens either it's something we're
really not passionate about we're really creating resistance around it or it's
something that we could be more passionate about but the way we're
thinking about it is causing us to feel resistance so for example we may feel
resistance in going to the gym if we dive and gone in a very long time and we
associate a lot of pain with going to the gym but if we were to switch around
the mechanism of our mind of the way we think about it we could start to go to
the gym and enjoy it if we started to a she ate it in a new way in her mind it's
not that we're just not passionate about it it's that we're maybe thinking about
it in a way that's not conducive to us getting what we want done so there's two
main ways so the key to this is being honest with yourself saying am I really
not passionate about this or is there a little bit different way I can look at
it I used to have a sales commission job before I did YouTube full-time and when
I knew I wanted to do YouTube full-time I started putting a lot more energy into
my videos and at the time I was working forty hours a week plus I was making
videos daily so it was a lot of energy however what I realized is that when I
went to work every day I'd feel so much resistance because I was resisting the
present moment there because I wanted to be creating more videos now from a
certain perspective that gave me the fire to do what I'm doing now full-time
and put more energy into it but from another perspective what I did is I
started to more so think about it differently while I was there I was like
I'm going to enjoy the present moment I'm gonna take this as an opportunity to
be more here now while I'm at work and to enjoy the process and the result of
that was I actually made more money I actually enjoyed the process more
therefore I increased my state to being which remember is the most important
part and I got much more done and then I made that transition much faster from
February of when I started put and really dedicated myself to what I was
doing and then August is when I was able to leave so it wasn't that long period
of time so the resistance I felt was able to be reframed by looking at the
situation in a new way before I was like I have to go to this job I don't like I
don't want to be here but I switched it around I was like you know what I do
choose to be here because do I have to go to work no there are other
opportunities other things to be doing but I choose to go to work because I
know it's a temporary thing and I know I can enjoy the moment I get to talk to
people I worked in women's shoes at Barneys New York which is a high-end
retail place so I was in a soup all day in a nice a/c place with other people
that I enjoyed to be around so it wasn't that big of a deal however the way I
thought about it changed I started increasing my state of being
I enjoyed the process more I got more done with my videos and everything else
I was do I went full-time much faster because I
let go of resistance so you can let go of resistance by being aware of the way
you're thinking about it and what you're doing and if you're feeling resistance
that is a sign that you are trying too hard so make it easier by aligning with
who you prefer to be because as you align with how you prefer to be
everything becomes easier now the second sign that you are trying too hard to
manifest what you want is that you are feeling blocks with your beliefs about
the process now this is what I want to ask you how do you believe the process
of manifestation works do you believe that you always get a
reflection of how you feel or who you are being because many times we believe
that the law of attraction process is very hard or we believe that things
don't come easy we think that we do have to take a ton of action in action is
powerful especially if we believe in action however that is a belief so I
always bring it back to this what what I have to believe is true to be having
this kind of experience if you believe that the process is hard then the
process will be hard if you believe it's hard for you to visualize then that will
also be the case if you believe that everything doesn't come easily then that
will be the case it's about your beliefs in relation to
the whole manifestation process in general so this is something that I also
reframed with the whole action thing I was talking about instead of me
believing that it's all about the action which I still do take action because I
love what I do however I realize it's also more important the energy aspect of
it than anything else so I started to focus on my own energy how do I feel in
relation to the process how do I believe what do I believe about the
manifestation process in general if I think about it from a linear type
perspective I'm like Here I am here I want to be I got to do this this this
this and then eventually I'll be here what I do is I create a longer process
than it has to be the stories we tell ourselves influence the kind of
experiences we're having so if instead what I did is I did something that is
more so considered what it's called quantum man
station I let go of this story I was telling myself and I simply believed
that I could go from here to here instead of from here to here to here to
here to here what is necessary for me to get to that space what is necessary is
for me to drop the story of the whole process of how things work and the other
thing that's necessary is that I embody the emotions of being here right now in
the present moment as I do that everything will change and I can go from
here to here instead of from here all the way mixed in so this comes from the
belief about the process do I believe I have to go through all of this or can I
just embody this and go forward with that I want to encourage you to
understand that you can make this process so much easier all you have to
do is understand that it can be easier you have to believe in alignment with
who you are you have to align with the true energy of who you are which means
what you're passionate about and then imagine the best version of yourself and
how you be acting and that preferred reality you could say I'm here and this
is where I want to be how are you acting over here I look at that with myself
what is my body language like in the reality where I am doing what I love and
I'll quit of course I'm already doing what I love but what I mean by that is
what is my body language like when I'm traveling the world and I'm giving
speeches in front of thousands of people when I'm going to amazing restaurants
and connecting with other people that think very similarly how am i doing when
I go to these exotic places and film videos how am I feeling that what is my
body language like how do I act and then what I do is I don't have any complete
conceived notions about how I have to get there I simply choose to embody
those emotions now because I realize those emotions exist within me right now
and as I focus on feeling those emotions because I know that part of those
emotions are freedom passion excitement all those emotions I can
right now through my focus focus equals feeling the more we focus on the
emotions we want right here the more we can quantum jump from here to here by
making the process so much easier than we are priority making it the more we
think in a linear time fashion the more we're gonna have to go through that
process make it easy and body the best version of yourself and as you do that
you find that things happen in a very powerful way third sign that you are
trying too hard to manifest what you want is that you are very attached to
either how things happen or when things happen when we are in the linear type
mind and we're thinking of when things will happen we are in a way saying that
we don't trust that things could happen faster than what we believe we are
trying to control how things happen because our ego is trying to take the
driver's seat however the job of the ego is to focus
but it is the job of the higher mind of the source energy of the universe
whatever we want to call it to bring it into our life experience that's why it's
more so about alignment than it is about us creating what we want here's
something that changed my perspective of manifestation it's understanding
parallel realities and this is something quantum physics is showing so there's an
infinite number of parallel realities that exist we are shifting constantly
through different parallel realities based on our focus our state of being
and what we are doing those three things are the main things that determine which
parallel realities we shift to now we're constantly shifting based on all of
those three different variables and the thing is is what you want to experience
exists right now in the present moment it exists right now so we don't have to
try so hard because it already exists we don't have to create our own reality all
we have to do is choose it from the space of infinite parallel reality
and how do we choose it we choose it with our state of being we choose it by
allowing it allowing choosing is so much easier than creating and trying and
having the ego do everything your ego doesn't have to do everything your ego
all it needs to do is to focus in a certain direction and start to feel as
if that reality is already here but if we are attached to how things happen if
we are attached to when things happen then we are still thinking about it from
the ego point of view we are still engrained in thinking that we have to
put everything on our back and we have to make things happen we have to create
our own reality that's an old paradigm it does work it
takes a lot of resistance but there's easier ways to go about it and the
easier way to go about it is by simply choosing to know that that exists right
now and all you have to do is align align your energy align your energy you
can still take action but you do it from a place of leveraged action you do it
from a place of my cup is already full I'm already whole and complete because
that reality already exists and it's really who you are if we believe that
we're not all incomplete that's a belief that's all that is if we believe that
the process is hard that's a belief it can be so much easier if we allow it to
be understand that your cup is already full you are whole and complete all you
have to do is embody the emotions of what you want right now and the process
will be so much easier you won't have to try so hard you just simply are you
don't have to create your own reality you just have to choose it from a place
of understanding that it already exists as you make it easier for this process
the universe will show you how easy it really is it's as easy as you allow it
to be so let me ask you a question what are your beliefs about the manifestation
process do you believe that it can be easy do you believe that you could feel
the emotions of what you want to experience right now in the present
moment do you believe that you are whole and complete and if you don't it's okay
be light on yourself but allow yourself to know and to start to shift your focus
because whatever you focus on you feel shift your focus to this reality that
you want to experience that you really already are and all you have to do is
let go of these layers that no longer serve these beliefs that create
resistance this belief that you have to do everything from the egos perspective
you are much more beyond that of the ego the ego is one aspect of who you are but
you are much more vast than you can possibly imagine and the more you start
to really tap into that the more you will completely change your life because
you're going to start to embody more of that essence of who you are you are so
much more than you know and the way you tap into that is with your focus it's
with your feeling that's with your embodiment of knowing that you are whole
and complete and you can choose to come from that frame now another part of this
process is understanding our vibration when we raise our vibrational set point
everything in our life will begin to change when we start to create or choose
from this higher perspective this higher vibration things happen so much easier
that's why I've created a free guided meditation that will show you exactly
how to raise your vibrational set point I think it can absolutely change
like that can make the manifestation process so much easier it's absolutely
free you can download it in the top of the description box below and it will
help you to create that powerful change in your life another thing I'll be doing
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