thank you about a year ago uh i was introduced to ask and it is given and life shifted in a great
way particularly around finance paid off all of our personal debt things are moving beautifully
and a few weeks ago a client contract went away and my first response was to take the windshield
to use the earlier analogy out of the front of the car stick it in the floorboard look straight down
and think you know well now i have to make x amount of money happen in x amount of time
and it's not a good feeling place and i heard making a lot of money fast doesn't feel good to
you wow making a lot of money fast feels great to me if you believe it yeah so what you're saying
to us is not believing that you can make a lot of money fast doesn't feel good so stop thinking that
okay
next that's so easy well the thing that the thing the thing the thing that we know that you're yet
to know and it's coming to you soon is that if the vortex trumps everything right so in the face of
evidence that defies what you want if you look at the evidence that defies what you want you're
always gonna you're gonna feel fear but when you know what you know you've come so far you know so
much if you can hear us when we say the vortex trumps everything and you can you might not be
able to conjure another contract just out of the ethers instantly and you might not be able to see
an immediate path to that money that you want or need but you do know that you can get into
the vortex in the next five minutes if you really want to and if we can convince you that getting
into the vortex in the next five minutes because you really want to is all that you need to do
and then the vortex will take care of everything else if we can convince you of that then you're
done but you got to believe it enough to get into the vortex and that's the thing what is
is sometimes so compelling that it keeps you out of the vortex because you keep wanting to explain
the injustice of the client bailing out of you you want to keep you want to explain how it shouldn't
have happened you in in that defensiveness or in that sheer examination of what is
but you just gotta let go of what is because you can't move to where you want to be while
you're looking at what is there are two different vibrations there are two different vantage points
they're different or just to be able to i i think where i get tripped is not seeing the path forward
not not even so much the injustice which says right so let's go back to what we were saying
earlier so not seeing the path not being able to be in the vortex not being able to appreciate
something that sucky that happened so so nothing wrong with that everybody understands that so
what what did we just offer earlier appreciate if you can and if you can't do what go general go
general so now let's take this specific subject of this client right that contract that was
and and be specific if you want to begin with but go general and negative sure um
everything is moving perfectly and it feels really lousy to have somebody that you trusted
um i was doing my part i did my part i over delivered i gave added value and then to have the
contract go away feels it does feel unjust feels like a betrayal yeah so now now so we've we've all
added to the specifics of that now make let it be negative because you can't help it but make
it more general in the negative um it's just business people are always looking to they're
looking for the best advantage they can find it really was not as personal as i wanted it to be
really i think business should be more business and not so personal um it's never a good idea to
put a lot of eggs in one basket and it's the point of having a lot of contracts and it's sharpening
my awareness of all of that right um i still have all of the knowledge that i held i'm still willing
to do as much services i was ever doing i know that there are other people out there just as this
these people came to us there are others that are still that are looking for us and that's a shift
into the general positive that i know there's others that are out there did you feel that
it did shift but you and you could get you got there pretty easily from there now if that shift
if you don't make that shift it's all right to stay in the general negative for a while
because it's movement from where you are and and in shifting to the more general that the more
positive called you in other words this is the thing that we want you to understand the vortex
with all its solutions is calling you you just can't hear it because you're beating the drum
of the specific problem but when you beat the drum of a less specific problem you can you have better
chance to hear the vortex when you really get general you the the the vortex is calling you
right into that general place that general and and as you hang around there before you know it the
solution just lights right up from one day to the next it can light up you can find yourself saying
i see why that contract which was not nearly as good as this one that came had to go away in order
to break lose the time and the personnel in order for us to service this other potentially much
greater potentially you see what we're getting at big time now now you can feel that now that that
doesn't it and it doesn't even feel like something that is that is hopeful it feels like something
that is certain doesn't it yeah and it feels like a flow in a natural progression and so so now if
you just if you want to play with it a little bit you can go back to the general negative and say
i'm looking forward to having a conversation where i actually thank them for all we learned together
all that we became because of them the expansion that i know would not have been there if it
had not been for that the preparation that they helped me with and even the impetus for this new
multiple contracts that were not available to me before that happened right
right because it's an adventure isn't it isn't it an adventure aren't you always at the beginning
of the journey and and and don't you just don't so now let's talk about this we were talking
about it earlier about the familiar right so let's say so you're familiar with home you're
familiar with the food you eat you're familiar with the work that you're doing it's familiar
it's familiar but doesn't doesn't the road call you doesn't the vacation call you doesn't
traveling the word call you doesn't it doesn't interfacing with other business concepts call you
doesn't it doesn't expansion call you doesn't it all call you and isn't familiar and same the
opposite of being called isn't isn't the adventure always calling you and isn't change always a
wonderful thing and aren't we we're putting to this to you from our absolute point of knowing
and we want to evoke our knowing right through you are not things always working out for you
aren't they yes yes things are always working out for you it doesn't matter
how it looks they're looking their things are working out for you this is a blessing in disguise
this is this is a good thing that's happened not a bad thing that's happened because bad things
don't happen when things are always working out for you can you hear it
can you feel the faith of it are you starting to know it a little bit you see
when you get there you'll never be in a bad place very long because you'll catch your balance quick
and then where you go from that place that felt bad will feel better than anything you've ever
ever ever ever done you ever eaten a meal after you've been hungry wasn't it way good
one other question about change
my life partner of 18 years have been talking about a business for the past uh year or so and
i've been peripherally assisting him and i've been getting more and more turned on and excited
by what he's up to and what he's doing and things are just flowing beautifully into his business and
i'm having a great time with it but it's nothing i anticipated doing myself and yet the more time
i spend with him working together with him the closer we've become the more are you telling
us that the vortex is revealing more and more to you completely different are you telling that are
you telling us that you are surprised that from outside the vortex you couldn't see everything in
it that you had to get in it before you could see it that's exactly what i'm saying get out