hey success insiders it's your coach Tim here and in today's video we're
gonna be talking about how you can deal with haters negative people racist
people people who literally put us down and make us feel like shit right the
people who are not empowering us who are disempowering who we want to basically
get rid of in our lives that's what we're going to be talked about in this
video ok guys the first thing I need you to realize before we jump into any of the
material you have to realize that this is a very big world we live in as you
know there's over 7.1 billion people living on this planet amongst us right
with us which means that there are over 7.1 billion ways that we're gonna
make a sense of how we view the world and how we make sense of this world we're
living in as you know no two persons are the same right we're all different otherwise
we'd all like that the same food we'd all like to do the same things as one
another and that's simply not the case so you have to realize that people are
gonna basically make sense of different things in comparison to you you just
have to truly grasp the fact that you know this is a huge world and everyone
makes sense of their own reality their own model of the world differently so
grasp that and let's move forwards okay guys the first thing you have to realize
is when people generally hate is due to the fact that they're trying to protect
something in themselves okay so you've probably heard how and you
know this widely chucked up talked about quote you may see on Facebook and
so forth about how haters they're just simply stating something that's a
reflection of themselves it's their insecurities this is kind of true and
it's definitely going the right direction but let me go slightly more
deeper for you just so you really make a sense of this and really grasp this
topic okay guys so usually when people hate it's due to the fact that they're
trying to protect their level of significance okay so for example you
know I checked a lot of videos out there on success and successful women successful
with regards to wealth and regards to health and you will
see amongst the the lovely comments I received from people like you I get
hater comments like racism out of nowhere like you know oh look at this
bloody you know Asian guy or your mouth of course it's a racist term they use or
look at this ugly girl and they're basically talking about my fiance just
out of nowhere there's just there's just hating right so the reason why haters
are doing this is by me projecting my own level world and my own level of
let's say success it's making them feel uneasy in regards to their significance
they start to feel that they are lower than me which triggers the fear
that majority of us have which is we're not good enough right so whenever they
come across something like that the immediately would resort back to like
hating they're like oh you know I have to gain my ground I have to hate because
they are basically acting in accordance to their fear and it's been triggered by
seeing something that is making them uneasy in regards to their significance
and how special they feel here's a really good analogy there are two ways
of building the tallest building in a town right you can either focus on
yourself and ensure that you basically grow and you become successful or you
can simply wipe out everyone else and like tear down their buildings so you're
the biggest one stood there standing and unfortunately that's what majority of
haters are doing right they're trying to protect their level of significance so
they're getting rid of everything else or attempting to get rid of everything
else so they still feel special right so it doesn't trick the trigger their fear
of not feeling good enough right so you get it great let's move on to the next
point okay guys the next point is all about understanding is understanding
that people are generally basically projecting their own level of awareness
to you right their own level of the world and how they view things how to
cope with their reality and a lot of its to do with conditioning how there's
brought up the peers at the moment they're role models right of course it
may not be aligned with how you are I think but they are literally just
projecting what they've learnt and what they've been conditioned to say
back to you so it is wrong but you have to realize it's not actually them it's
just conditioning and it can break that conditioning can break how do I know
that because I've been there right for seven years ago a lot of you guys know I
was in a gang and you can be sure I used to cause a lot of harm to people and I
used to bully people I used to be that negative person but after I got
myself out of that peer group into a new peer group which are very successful
go-getters what happens to me my viewpoint of how I view the world
changed right how I go about my day to day changed what I do every single
morning regards to meditation gratitude writing my diary and so forth
like that's all inhibited from changing my environment so you have to realize
that the person who may be hating you right now is not them it's just simply
their conditioning of course in this current moment it is wrong for them to
do that but they are simply just projecting their own level of awareness
back to you right and it is wrong but by you basically you know arguing back to
that person it doesn't make it right either right just imagine right now like
if used to look back at your old self of how use to view the world let's say five
ten years ago imagine just like for a moment like usually if I look back I'm
like I can't believe I used to think like that or how a comedy about how we
used to dress like that right but imagine if you were to turn back at your
old self and say oh this is all wrong this is all wrong you shouldn't be
thinking like this but would he even listen or would she even listen of
course not right you can't tell somebody that they
are wrong just because your own level of awareness is higher or just because your
model of the world seems right because everyone thinks they're own model
of the world seems right as well so the only thing we can actually do guys is
simply accept that's it accept their own model world realise that yep I can
see the patterns they're running I can see that they're hating because you know
they don't wanna feel threatened in regards to their significance and they don't want
the fear of not feeling good enough you come to that level higher awareness and
you realized what haters hate simple as that so you have to basically
accept them simple that's how you deal with haters guys that's how you deal with
haters is to realize that you can't argue back that's usually that's just
chucking fuel into the flame and now you know why they're doing the stuff they do
simply just accept it and move on and carry on what you're doing because guess
what you are focusing on yourself you're focused on building the tallest building
and you're not you know big being hated by chuckin or tearing down everyone
else's building you're focusing on your building in growing highest possible
building which is your self growth as possible and that's what's gonna make
you successful and guys just be really thankful be thankful for the fact that
you've got this open mind be thankful for that you're not this hater right
because this hater has got such a close mind that he is not gonna be open to
this level of awareness stuff you'll probably chuck more hate comments in this
particular video but it's amazing because you know we connect right
and we make sense of this and we are open to this and because of that you're
gonna live a higher quality of life than them and so I think it's important
for you and I to be very thankful for the fact that we are very open and we are
open to self-development and we're blessed enough to have this level of
awareness in this particular time in life right just be thankful for it it's
a blessing in disguise seriously grasp this reality you're
living and realized how truly amazing is and you can squeeze every drop out of
life and make every second count okay excellent I hope all of that made sense
you to just go back over is you know the first point was to realize haters hate
true truly down to the fact that they don't wanna feel threatened right
they don't wanna feel like they're not good enough right you're you're
questioning their level of significance by basically doing what you're doing
second point is to realize that you have to accept haters and realize it's not
necessarily them is their conditioning that's making them like that right
hopefully one day they will wake up and that's for a lot of people it's not in the
lifetime right so be thankful which is the third point be thankful that it is in
this lifetime that you can basically be open to this and you can grow further
than them to carry on doing what you're doing cause you're doing amazing realize
that haters sometimes is a very good sign that you are doing something
wonderful right because at the end of the day if it's making them uneasy it means that
you're obviously doing something that's better than them so carry on doing what
you're doing because you are honestly doing amazing okay guys that is it from
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