- As I record this video, it is 11:11,
and what does that mean?
It means that if you're seeing this video,
then you are meant to be here.
You can take it as a good sign that you probably are
and consider yourself the lone wolf in your family,
and I'm gonna show you in this video
how you can finally meet your soul tribe,
how you can release the beliefs
and the energy that is literally blocking them
from coming into your life so that you
can finally feel the connection, the love,
and the support in your life that you've been searching for
for such a long period of time.
Now, also realize with this that this is a natural progress
and process that you go through when you go
through a spiritual awakening process.
So sometimes when you're the lone wolf,
you might think there's something wrong.
You might think my friends aren't getting me.
My family doesn't understand me, and I feel very alone,
but this is one of the stages of initiation on you
becoming more aware of yourself, you kinda in a way
dealing with your own stuff as well
so that then, as you go inwards, you then realize
how much you appreciate the connection
that you have with other people.
Now, I say this because I've been
through the same exact thing, and for years,
I felt like the lone wolf.
Back in 2012, I went through my spiritual awakening.
I went from somebody that was
super out there, partying a lot.
I smoked a lotta cannabis.
I was working my nine to five job
and then just hanging out with friends,
and eventually, I learned meditation.
I started going inwards more, and within two or three weeks,
my whole entire life transformed,
and it got to the point to where, when I went to work,
people were literally, "What is wrong?
What happened, Aaron?
You're such a different person now,"
and at first, I thought there was something wrong with me,
but then I was realizing no, my energy's changing.
I went from very frenetic and my energy
all over the place to being more grounded.
I got off Adderall within weeks,
which is the prescription drug I got for ADHD.
I started meditating.
I started doing mantras.
I became very fascinated with the law of attraction,
manifestation, spirituality, and I started,
there's a whole new realm of reality that was open to me
that I never knew possible, and it was so exciting.
Even to this day, there's these songs
I used to listen to back in the day like Enigma.
You guys ever heard of Enigma?
I listened to the albums of that
when I was going through my awakening.
When I listened to it now, it brings me back
to that period in time, and when I went
through that, though, I remember I was
so excited to learn everything I was learning
about the law of attraction.
Even I was into conspiracy theories and different things
'cause you kinda realize that reality's
a little bit different than the way you've always believed,
and it's exciting, and it's expansive,
and at the same time, I at that moment went vegan,
and I lost a whole bunch of weight,
and people thought I was on drugs,
and of course, I was on nothing.
I was just meditating, but because I looked that way,
that was people's perception, and I would be excited
to explain my friends, my family all this stuff,
but all it did was ostracize me even more
because then, my dad was, "What happened to my son?"
Literally, that was a very emotional
actual moment when that happened
because he literally thought I went crazy,
and then friends were, "What happened with Aaron?"
My dad's calling my friends, and my friends
were, "Well, we don't know what's happening to him either,"
and then I just felt even more alone,
and then as I would go out into the world
and stuff to connect with people,
it was hard for me to connect with people,
and I would just conclude that okay, I'm okay.
I don't need anybody else.
I just need to be with myself,
and for years, literally a couple years,
that was my reality.
I found it hard to connect with people.
I didn't even really want to connect with people
because I had this belief that they're not
gonna understand me.
In my friend group and in my family group,
like, my family, I just felt kind of alone
and like something changed, and I felt like the weird one,
and that was something that I stayed with for years,
but there was something that changed everything,
and that's what I wanna share with you in this video,
is how you can do what I did to change it all
because I'll share with you my story,
but my life is completely different now.
I'm surrounded by so many soul family people,
and I've attracted so much of my soul family
into my life that I am excited
to connect with people, and it's almost to a place
to where I have to really be mindful
of where I put my energy because I'm so busy,
and I have such an abundance of friends around me, you know?
And it's not just because I'm on YouTube,
and I have all this.
I've literally seen so many people
go through the same transformation,
whether you do what I do for a living or not.
So just know that.
You might say, "Well, Aaron's on YouTube,
and he's in front of a lotta people,
so he's attracting them."
The thing that made all the difference
in the world was back in 20,
well, back really in 2017 was when everything shifted,
and one of the main things that shifted, I became aware of,
is first off, I had such a resistance to being
in what we call the 3D.
I had such a resistance till I didn't wanna get a job.
I was just wanting to ascend into higher levels
of consciousness, and what I had to eventually do
is I had to drop my judgments about other people
because this is what I realized:
if I would go into reality, work, whatever,
and I'd be, "People don't get me,"
and I would judge them almost sometimes too
because that was my way of rationalizing.
It's a spiritual ego, really, is what this is,
and I would say, "They don't understand me.
They're asleep in the matrix.
They haven't been through a spiritual awakening yet,"
and that's a judgment, and that's also something
that feeds the spiritual ego, so it's not very healthy,
but what I had to do is I had to let that belief go
because my belief was all people,
you know, most people in the world
are just totally asleep, totally unaware,
and because of that, I can't connect with them.
So one thing that I learned to do is I learned
to actually enjoy my nine to five job
at the time, which actually helped me connect
with people at a different level,
but also, I had to drop my beliefs
that all people are asleep, and they don't understand,
you know, the spiritual awakening content
because that belief would then trap me only being
around other people that also believed in the same thing.
When I let go of that belief, so much began to change.
I started actually connecting with people.
Now, if you fast-forward a little bit more,
one of the things that made the biggest difference
in the world for me by far, in many different ways,
was when I committed to my passion, when I committed,
and the doubts never really went away until I worked
through them, so it's not like when I, you know,
I made the choice to go daily on YouTube.
It's not like, you know, I let go
of the perfectionist mentality.
I started to feel credible.
I felt worthy and enough.
I knew how to edit.
I had all the skills.
None of that.
I just simply decided to commit and to start,
and what happened is as I started making videos
every single day, it started to change my identity,
and I started to tap into my heart center more,
and I had a different energy, and what happened
is as my YouTube channel started to grow,
I started to become more comfortable with myself as well,
which maybe at a certain point, I was looking
to external validation for support and stuff,
but I started to believe in myself more,
and as I started to get a different result,
my identity shifted, but shortly after that,
I eventually connected to another YouTuber
as I started grow named Victor Oddo,
who is my best friend, also my business partner
in, you know, Full Time Purpose.
We show people how to go full time doing what they love,
and one of the things was that because I was passionate,
we had so much love.
We were able to relate with each other at a deep level
because we were both going full time.
We were both learning. I was learning.
I was the YouTube guy that knew all these YouTube hacks
because my YouTube channel was exploding,
and he was a coach that knew all these ways
to get coaching clients and stuff,
so we'd each give each other ideas and stuff
so that we could grow what we were doing,
and from that, we met first off in Vegas.
We did a video together.
He then started asking me questions
like, "What is Vegas like to live?
What is it like to have a family there?"
'Cause he has three kids and a wife,
and I started explaining to him.
I was, "It's not what you think."
Of course, I saw that as my opportunity to upsell Vegas
so that he'd move there, and eventually,
he moved to Vegas two months later,
and we became best friends, and then from there,
the soul fam continued to expand.
It's like we, at first, we felt like, "Oh, finally,
I'm not a lone wolf anymore.
I got a partner in this," you know what I mean?
And that changed everything, but it was when I started.
None of this would happen.
I wouldn't met, you know, my soulmate, Heather.
I wouldn't have met my other soul brother, Matt.
I would've have met a lotta the people in my life
if it weren't for me going after my passion
and being in my ideal frequency because realize this.
I noticed this when I was dating ex-girlfriends and stuff.
If I was with somebody, it was always a reflection
of my own energy, so if I was working a nine to five job
I hated, I tend to always be in relationships
with people that worked nine to five jobs they hated
because that was the energy I was putting out,
but once I started going full time with my passion,
I only attracted women that were also going full time
with their passion, full time with their passion
because it's a one on one reflection,
but one of the things that I highly recommend you do
is you commit to you being in your ideal frequency
of committing to your purpose, to your passion.
If you don't know what that is, you simply set
the intention to start tapping inwards.
A lotta times, what happens is we have a lack
of awareness to what we're thinking and feeling,
and we're so trying to find it on the outside
that we're not aware that it's within us already.
It's something that's found within.
I simply knew expressing these ideas
was what I was passionate about,
and as I started to commit to that, it changed everything.
So for this, realize that being the lone wolf,
also, another thing that'll hold you back
is if you keep calling yourself the lone wolf.
Now, realize this, lone wolf also has
within the words lonely, lonely,
and lonely is a feeling like you're missing something.
There's a difference between alone and lonely.
Lonely tends to have a little bit more
of a negative connotation.
Alone is like there's nothing wrong.
I'm just alone right now, and at deeper levels
of reality, we're really alone anyways
because we're all reflections of each other,
so there's really only more of us,
but the more we say we're the lone wolf or the lonely wolf,
the more that we stay blocked,
and the more that we stay in that identity,
but instead of being alone, what if you realized
you were all one?
We are all one, all alone.
A-L-O-N-E.
Kind of a cool play on words that just came to my mind,
but imagine we're all connected.
We're all one anyways, but the belief
that I am the lone wolf, I identify as the lone wolf,
will keep us as the lone wolf because reality
just wants to feed us more of what we believe
to be true about ourselves.
So one thing I'd highly recommend you do
is let go of the identity of lone wolf,
and instead, start to embody your purpose.
Instead, begin to let go of the judgments.
Become aware of the judgments you might have
about other people, and then one thing
I'd highly recommend you do to really meet
your high vibe tribe, your soul family,
is start getting into the unknown.
Get uncomfortable.
Now, the unknown, we all have this little box that we stay
in of what we know: how we think, feel, and act.
We have activities we do, and if we feel like a lone wolf,
it's because what we are doing, thinking, acting,
and feeling as is keeping us in a box.
When I started making videos, I was out of my comfort zone,
but in the newness is where all the magic happens.
So as I started to make videos, I started allowing
new opportunities to flow through,
new people to come into my life.
You create more connections because you're out
of the old identity.
That's really the key to getting outta the old identity too.
It's literally doing something unknown
and then observing yourself, observing how you think,
how you feel, how you act.
Become aware of the old identity, the old patterns,
and then begin to let them go,
and you will naturally start to feel more connected,
and then be more okay with yourself.
It's another really important part of this.
Be okay being alone 'cause if we resist
being alone, which is different
than being lonely, if we resist being alone,
just with ourself, then we're saying, "There's something
wrong with me, and I need to find something else
on the outside," and that energy field is almost needy,
and sometimes, we put other people on a pedestal.
"It'd be so amazing for me to meet my soul family."
We'll put that on a pedestal, and then it's like we go out,
and it's like we're almost, you know,
just like people go out, and they're, "Are you my soulmate?
Are you my twin flame? Are you this?"
And that puts such a huge pressure
on other people you're talking to.
It's the same way with soul family.
It's like, "Are you my soulmate?
Are you my soulmate?
Are you my soul fam?
Are you my high vibe tribe?"
And they're, "Dude."
You know, it's just an energy thing,
but if you take them off a pedestal,
if you start to follow your passion,
if you let go of the identity of being the lone wolf,
if you let go of the judgments that you might have
towards other people, you'll find that people
connect with you more, but just own it.
Own even being the, instead of the lonely wolf,
the alone wolf for now.
Feel okay in your own energy field.
Know that it's okay.
The more fun you have, the more contagious your energy is.
The more fun you have being alone,
the more likely you are to make other connections,
and realize that now, on the planet, by the way,
it is a time of connecting with other people.
Next week, I'm doing The Shift Experience.
I don't know when this video's coming out,
but I'm doing The Shift Experience live next week
on May 6th, 7th, and 8th.
If you haven't joined yet, how about
I'll have this video go out.
This is the last video that's gonna go out.
If you haven't joined The Shift Experience,
it's May 6th, 7th, and 8th, and that three-day event
is all about understanding how to embody your purpose
to remove the doubts, the blocks,
the things that are keeping you back,
and then also, how to connect and meet your soul family.
There's no more in-person tickets left,
but there are virtual tickets, and you'll meet them
in Zoom breakout groups from all over the world,
and it's so supportive, but even the live event
that I'm doing, I have so many people coming in to speak
to do it with me.
It's not just me.
I've got Heather. I've got Victor.
I've got Doug, my shadow work integration coach.
I got my friend Matt.
I got Julie. I've got Rebecca.
I've got all these friends coming in
that are amazing at what they do
to help with this process because this is the time
of community, and just through seeing us
all work together too, you'll be inspired, I think,
because we do these Soluna retreats every year,
three times a year, these plant medicine retreats,
and when we do them, it's very interesting
because people are so inspired by just how we unitly
work together because there's eight of us, you know,
and they're, "Oh, we want that," and then they create that
with each other, so if you haven't joined
The Shift Experience yet, now's the last time to join.
Click the link below.
Go to TheShiftExperience.com, and then also,
if you want to learn more why sometimes in a high vibration,
you feel lonely, this video right here
will explain it and help you undo all the false patterns
that are keeping you feeling lonely,
so watch this video right now to go to the next level.
This video, I'm gonna show you the three reasons
high vibrational people feel lonely
and why many times, they will literally block
either their soul connect.