Are you an older guy interested in Dating younger women, but you feel insecure about
your age, sure that no younger women will be interested in you?
In this video I'm going to tell you why older men have a HUGE advantage over younger guys,
and how exactly you need to go about meeting and attracting younger women.
Its true that most of the older men I work with feel insecure about their age.
Men in their late 30s and early 40s feel absolutely sure that no woman in her 20s would be interested.
Why would they be, with so many younger, more verile, and presumable better looking guys
running around?
Let me start by saying this.
I've been coaching men in their dating lives for a decade now, and men from 30-40 are THE
MOST desireable age bracket from a woman's persepctive.
They have the easiest time meeting and attracting women.
They consistently out perform guys in their 20s.
And men aged from 40-45 are a close second, followed by men 25-30, then men 45-50, then
men below 25.
Does that surprise you?
Let's investigate what is about older men that gives you so much value.
Firstly, it's no secret that women like men who are Mature, no woman wants to play mummy
to a boy who hasn't grown up yet.
Simply put, the older you are, the more mature you're likely to be.
Women also like men who are self-assured and confident, and almost all men over 30 are
more confident now than they were 10 years ago.
Women like men who have a strong sense of identity and aren't unsure of what they stand
for in life.
This is something younger men really struggle with.
Something else men have a lot more of as they get older is Emotional and Financial stability
- many younger women are sick of dating young guys who are emotionally insecure, argue over
petty things, and have no clear career goals yet.
They can't possibly compete with you in this way.
Lastly, women are hoping to find men who are more sensitive to their needs as women.
Did you know that your hormone levels change as you grow older?
Your needs and priorities begin to shift as you age due largely to hormone changes, so
you become emotionally closely aligned with the needs of women.
This is why older men are well known for being a LOT more emotionally supportive of and sensitive
to their partners.
Now let's get clear on realistic age gaps.
Once a woman hits about 25 years old, the majority of women are open to dating a man
up to 15 years old, and quite a few won't mind extending to 20 years for the right guy.
I work with 40 year old men all the time who are meeting and attracting women in their
20s.
It's definitely not because of their money, since many of these men aren't particularly
wealthy.
There isn't any great trick required to meet them either.
If you are comfortable to head to some of the classier clubs in your city and approach
younger women, then that is by far the best strategy, and it's a large part of what I
teach for a living.
However, a lot of men feel a lot more comfortable trying online dating to meet younger women
- If this is you, then is an important trick you need to know.
Online dating sites force to you specify an age range for a partner you're interested
in.
Most women instinctively put the upper age cap at 30 years old or 40 years old.
Not because they'd never want to date a man over 30 or 40, but because it seems easy to
put the cap at an even number.
This means that lots of men in their early 40s who would otherwise be very attractive
to younger women get missed out on.
For this reason, so long as it is within 5 years of your actual age, I highly recommend
setting your age on your online profile to 29 or 39 resepctively, you'll see a MASSIVE
bump in match results.
One word of warning though, you MUST tell her your real age before wasting too much
of her time talking online, women are very sensitive to being lied to, so after a few
messages online, tell her you set your age a bit younger, and tell her why you did it.
The big mistake older men make when trying to date younger women, is they try to dress
and behave like younger men do.
This is the worst thing you can do!
You want to OWN the fact that you are a mature older guy, and freely express the aspects
of an older man that women are drawn to.
Spend time talking about interesting adventures you've had in your longer life - Show that
you understand her as a woman better than most younger guys do - Give her some wisdom
about insight you might have about her based on your life experience.
Embrace all your older man qualities, and you'll quickly see plenty of women want what
you've got, and younger guys won't possibly be able to compete with.
There's so much I could say on this topic, so if you have more questions below be sure
to post them up, and I'll be sure to answer.
I may even make a few more training animations specifically for older gentlemen.
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