So this aggression comes when?
When you are stressed
Sometimes we
Out of courtesy, we tolerate
And we tolerate and tolerate and tolerate
But we are not showing violence outside
But inside it is boiling, building
And one day it just bursts
It becomes even more dangerous
Here, wisdom comes to help
It is the wisdom that does not allow
stress to get into our system
If stress is there
It blocks innovation
It blocks inspiration
And it blocks intuition
Whoever fights they feel they are right
If you feel that you are wrong
you don t get the strength to fight at all
you fight because you are righteous
Unfortunately, the sense of righteousness
is so narrow and so limited
The righteousness that we feel is
only our own mental makeup or concept
And beyond that there is something
That is the real cause of any effect
and wisdom is looking into the real cause
Violence in mind is because
you are too much a perfectionist
Leave a little space for imperfection
More patience will come in life
With more patience less anger
Less anger no violence
You don t get upset about mosquitoes
Why?
Because you know that
you are bigger than the mosquito
But when you don t know that
you are bigger than a mosquito
then you have a problem
Then you become aggressive
A mosquito comes Hey mosquitoes, come come
Let us take a ---------------
How dare you come!
I am so upset at you angry at you
It is a mosquito my dear
So on who are you aggressive at?
When you think somebody is bigger than you
You become aggressive
Not exactly someone is really bigger than you
Then also you cant, you don t become aggressive
And when someone is too small
Then also you don't
When you feel that somebody is at par with you
Equal to you.
A little above or little below
Then you become aggressive
That simply shows that
you are unaware of your potential
That is why you must wake up and see
The person on whom we are aggressive is just a mosquito
To see life from a different perspective or
the broader outlook
You change the context to your life
You will see life is not what you think
It has a struggle
If you change the context to your life
You will see these emotions are nothing much
to bind you or to
make you feel guilty or suffocate
These emotions are just like a decoration
Good you didn t react in the past
If you had expressed your anger
You would have been regretting
Don t think, I have a supressed anger
It Is not supressed anger
Somewhere your intellect was smart enough
To not react on those angry moments
Expressing it is not going to correct the other person
Not it is going to make your life any better
You should act not just react
Supressed anger is all about reaction
If you have not reacted, that is good
The frequency of your anger is inversely proportional to your strength
The stronger you are less angry you get
Weaker you are, you are more prone to anger
Behind anger, there is a desirer
You must recognise that
And what is that desire?
If it is for your comfort your pleasure
Or your ego
It is a different reaction that you have
But if is out of compassion
If your anger has a purpose to set things right
It is a different thing
Don t make anger use you
You can use anger as an instrument
Whenever it is needed
Any household lady, a woman with children
she knows that very well
She knows when to show anger and when not to
Sometimes anger is good
When it is sparingly used
But if you use it every day
It has no value
Rather it puts down your own value
Anger is because of love
Suppose you have no love
You will not even have anger
So love gets distorted
becomes jealousy, anger, greed, hatred
Why you hate somebody?
Because they are depriving you of what you need to have
So hatred is love upside down
Take responsibility for your life
And if you think always I get trapped
This is the seed that you are throwing into the universe
And the same seed is going to sprout again
Your intentions manifest the way you want it to
Only one thing you have to attend to hear
Let not the past
However hopeless it has been in the past
influence your future
Future for me
Good people are going to come
I will be fine
Everything will happen
This is the thought you have to put
This is the intention that you have to put in yourself
And how good meditator you are
Will show you how soon that manifests
If you are not meditating
If you are not doing your pranayama, kriya
and things like that
these thoughts may take a longer time to get manifested
The stronger the spirit, then stronger the mind
stronger the love and devotion
faster the materialisation of your intention