19 Best Signs A Girl Doesn't Like You!
19.
Group Session Sometimes a girl will be generally nice and
interact with you while you’re around other people.
But, if she only interacts with you while in a group setting or avoids one-on-one encounters,
in her eyes, getting closer is out of the question.
And, if being alone with you for just casual conversation is out of the question, you can
bank on her having approximately zero intention of dating you.
18.
Party Pal Have you only seen her in party mode?
This is almost like being friend-zoned, but with perks.
You get to hang out with her around town, at clubs, or maybe even alone.
But, have you ever taken her back to your pad?
Has she ever invited you to hang at home with her?
If not, this is not a relationship, and won't turn into one.
She likes to party and that's about it.
If you want a serious thing with her, you’re probably out of luck.
Enjoy her free, energetic spirit if that’s enough for you.
17.
Friend Zone The dreaded friend zone reality check.
She sees you as a sibling, not a suitor.
That’s right.
If she ever drops a comment like, “I love you - like a brother,” you can take that
as more than a hint.
She is clearly telling you, as gently as possible, that she might dig you as a friend.
But, she has no desire to move you from the friend zone to a more personal one.
But hey, friend zones can be cool, too, right?
After all, friends have other friends.
16.
Space Between She’s never on the same piece of furniture
as you.
When you’re on the couch, she’s on the chair.
And vice versa.
If she avoids sharing space with you, it’s most likely because she doesn’t want that
to lead to other things.
If this continues, you may want to find another girl.
One who's nervous system doesn’t jump into ‘fight or flight’ mode when you come within
three feet of her.
15.
Jokes Don’t Fly If a girl is interested in a guy she will
laugh at his jokes.
Even if his quips are truly lame, and are nowhere near comedy club worthy.
So, if you happen to be spitting Dane Cook-level fire without getting even the slightest sympathetic
giggle, there’s a reason.
She’s just not that interested.
14.
Little Match Girl Does she play matchmaker?
If you ever hear the words, “I totally think you and so-and-so would make an amazing couple.
You should totally ask her out!”
Just count your losses and move on, bro.
Or, you can take her up on that bittersweet, yet generous offer!
In many ways, this is the best sort of rejection you could possibly ask for.
While she has just closed one door, she has opened another.
She may not be your soulmate.
But having a gal pal as your wingman is a pretty decent consolation prize.
13.
User Loser This one is a bit tricky.
She may actually manipulate you into thinking that she cares for you and is genuinely interested.
When in reality, she just wants to supply herself and all her friends with free rides
around town.
Be especially cautious of this behavior if you possess nice things that can benefit others
– a nice car, for example.
Even if you enjoy her company, don’t fall prey to these types of user-loser tactics.
She’s not interested in dating you.
She’s just taking advantage of a nice guy, using you as her free, private chauffeur.
Do yourself a favor, lose her digits and drive away.
12.
Plain Jane Has she allowed you to witness her not-so-fresh
face?
If she’s into you, unless you live in the same building and a late night fire alarm
is the reason for your unexpected encounter; you would likely never see her looking as
if she’s auditioning for Walking Dead.
If she could care less about seeing you while rocking mad scientist hair, no makeup, and
raggedy sweatpants, she is just not into you.
Girls care (too much) about looking hot around guys they like.
If she seems embarrassed and explains that she, “can’t believe you are seeing me
like this,” then things may be in your favor.
But, if she’s unfazed when stumbling into you while looking less a hot mess, it’s
a friend-zone reminder, my friend.
11.
Boyfriend Blues Listen up, guys.
If she has a boyfriend, that means she is currently off limits.
It's as simple as that.
Even if she shows a shady side by hitting on you - don’t go there!
This is trouble in the making.
Hey, it might be tempting.
But, even if you like her, leave her alone.
She might be tempted to flirt or be swayed by your charms, but that’s just not cool.
Karma might come back around when you’re seeing someone, and that’s painful payback,
buddy.
Plus, if you make a move on her, you’ll be the one labeled as a sleazy player.
If that’s your thing, fine.
But, you could be risking your reputation for when a great girl comes along.
Keep in mind, all girls talk.
10.
She's A Drag If a girl is into you then she should be excited
and energized when you’re hanging out together.
Your moments should feel special, as opposed to having a looming feeling that she wants
to get away.
Or that she's just going through the motions of hanging out, and acting like a Debbie downer.
Okay, you may be dealing with a low energy girl.
But if her low energy is draining yours, then you are best off letting this one go.
9.
Yep, Nope If your texts are being met with one word
replies time and again - something’s up.
It’s possible it’s just bad timing for her.
But, more likely, she annoyed with the conversation, or you, and is too nice or too weak to man
up and say so.
If you recognize it early, you’ll save yourself heartache from playing this time-waster game.
Take the hint and ask her directly about it.
Nicely, of course, in case it’s truly nothing personal.
But, you have every right to simply ask if things are still cool, or if she doesn’t
want you texting her.
She should be honest at this point and tell you the truth.
Who knows, maybe she's just a terrible texter, or shy, and needed a nudge one way or another.
8.
No Text Reply You can’t get a text back.
Nothing says, “I want nothing to do with you” as much as leaving a guy hanging with
no replies at all.
If it’s come to the point where your friendly “what’s ups” are going unanswered, don’t
assume that she’s simply not getting them.
It’s much more likely that she’s emphasizing her lack of interest.
7.
Got No Time Girls don't just randomly bring up, as their
conversation starter, that they don't have time for a relationship.
If this is her convo lead-in, she’s making it as clear as mud that she's not looking
for a relationship.
It doesn’t matter if it’s with anyone or just you.
The point is, she is trying to be nice by blaming her "busy" life.
Don't take this one to heart, though, because she may actually be swamped with work, school,
or major life changes.
If that's the case, just be cool and supportive.
She’ll remember how cool you were when you backed off, and maybe that’s enough to make
her think twice about you.
6.
Arm’s Reach Does a girl keep you at arm’s reach anytime
you’re near?
Not quite as if you’re wearing a hazmat sign, but it feels like it.
Or, maybe she’s keeping her distance from you during conversation, holding her purse
between the two of you as if it were a riot shield.
What she’s doing is placing a physical and psychological barrier between the two of you
in order to halt any physical advances you may make toward her.
These kinds of actions usually mean you might start exploring other potential companions.
5.
Invisible Man Does she make you feel invisible while in
plain sight when you run into her friends?
If she’s not seriously into you, she might “forget” to introduce you on purpose.
It’s a terrible feeling, to be standing awkwardly in front of everyone and be completely
iced.
If it’s clear she did it intentionally, that’s pretty cold.
It’s possible she’s just a totally self-absorbed human being.
Even if that’s the case, you can do better.
This could be her way to keep you separate from her personal life and close circles.
Basic respect is not hard, though.
If she treats you like this, bail ASAP.
You deserve better.
4.
Feet Talk Believe it or not, our feet have a ‘tell’
that can expose our thoughts or emotions, similar to what we hear about poker players.
This is one of the most telling physical social cues we have.
Psychologists have identified this simple way to quickly measure another person’s
level of interest.
If you’re in a conversation with your target girl, and you can’t tell if she’s genuinely
interested – sneak a peek at her feet.
Observe her feets’ position, specifically in relation to you.
See if those toes are facing away, and not directly aimed at you.
If her feet are not giving you their full attention, it’s safe to assume that neither
is she.
She may be talking to you, but her mind, like her feet, is elsewhere.
Try to discover the source of her distraction.
It’s possible she has something serious to attend to, so don’t take that personally.
But, if every time you’re talking with her, her feet are pointed anywhere but directly
toward you, her head is somewhere else, too.
3.
Dude, Buddy, Bro Does she treat you like you’re just a dude,
buddy or bro to her?
If she uses these kinds of nicknames on you so often that you start questioning the name
on your birth certificate, rest assured your friend zone status is hovering right around
99.99%.
She’s really saying that you’re a cool pal to hang around, but that’s as far as
it goes.
2.
The Ex Hex If an ex is truly an ex then his name should
remain in the dark shadows and seldom, if ever, be brought up.
If your crush is bringing up her ex as a regular conversation piece, then you have a glowing
red flag on your hands, my friend.
This girl can be unpredictable, with her mind in the past too much to make room for someone
new.
1.
Cheater Meter Is the girl you like flirting and teasing
you at times, even when another guy is in the picture?
I’m sure you’re hot, but try to observe her actions for an objective minute.
If your cheater meter alarms go off - RUN.
If you’re after a lasting, honest relationship, avoid this girl altogether.
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