as easy as it may sound there's more to tender than swiping left or right this
is especially true if you're looking for love
Hey ladies my name is Amy North I'm a relationship coach from Vancouver BC
some of you may know me from my new program the devotion system designed to
help women find and lock down love but if this is your first time checking at
my channel then welcome now today I'm going to talk about something that is so
relevant in today's day and age and that's how to successfully find love
online or more specifically how to use tinder as a woman you've actually got
the odds in your favor in fact study by students at the Indiana
University showed that men swipe right 47 percent of the time whereas women
only do so 15 percent this means that men are three times more likely to like
a woman's profile than we are two men the same study also showed that humor a
clever opening and looks are the top three attention drivers and that
proximity plays a big role in her chances of hooking up now with those
stats in mind let's talk about some tinder secrets for women tricks to up
your odds and make more men want to meet you before I jump into these secrets I'd
like to quickly ask that if you like what you learn here today or enjoy this
video then please take a moment subscribe to my youtube channel
there you'll find my other dating advice videos and I'd really appreciate the
support so now that that's it the way let's get started the first tinder
secret I want to share with you is to present yourself in an honest way this
means being honest about your appearance so it's tempted as you may be to
Photoshop your image or use an old photo of yourself one from a time when you
were younger and in better shape don't the number one complaint tinder
users have is that their date and in no way resembled their online profile so to
avoid this from happening simply be real sure a super attractive profile pic may
get you more right swipes but that bubble will soon burst when you have to
meet these men in real life instead be honest about your looks it's only going
to be awkward when you meet in person if you're lying
not to mention that it'll kick things off on a sour note speaking of photos
there are a few other tips you should keep in mind when choosing which ones to
use for instance it's important that you include photos of yourself alone yes a
fun group photo can work to your advantage especially if you have one
that shows you having good time with friends but that said don't overdo it
with these shots if all your photos are a few and others then men may have a
hard time telling who you are on the other hand the same rules apply
for selfies one or two are okay but make sure that not all your photos there ones
you've taken yourself these get boring and lacks some serious originality
instead use photos that are interesting for instance pictures of you traveling
or shots that show your personality oh and this should go without saying but by
all means avoid the duckface guys aren't into it same goes for overly revealing
photos posting pictures of your extreme cleavage or booty shorts is not going to
attract the right kind of guys so if you're looking for a relationship then
this isn't the way you want to go my second tinder tip is to include a bio
now you may be thinking what do you mean I just want to meet someone online
quickly or I don't want to put that much effort into an online hook-up site if
that's you then it's especially important that you keep this tip in mind
including a bio not only up to your odds of men messaging you but it also gives
them something to comment on this is especially true if you come up with
something creative and original just looking to meet someone new or other
dating sites didn't work out or not good leads instead be the happy-go-lucky self
and this is your chance to stand out when writing your bio think of it as a
first impression because really that's what it is just like you'd want to make
a good one in person this is your shot to do so online now you don't have to
include every detail about who you are and what your story is but instead note
the things you're into this will give men something to relate to and a genuine
taste of who you are you don't have to be a really serious here either in fact
a little bit of light-hearted humor can take you far just be sure that what you
write is tasteful and intelligent don't skimp on writing out full words either
you as in y-o-u and are a re are not hard to type out so
don't be lazy and butcher the English language remember this is your chance to
show them your best self so make sure that your bio radiates positivity when
men get the impression that you're fun to be around simply by reading a few
sentences about you then your chances of finding a match will skyrocket for tips
on how to up and come across as a confident catch
that any man would be lucky to have then visit my site ww coach NORTHCOM and
watch the free video presentation trust me you don't want to miss it my third
and final tinder secret is to be active if men are messaging you then take the
time to respond to them just because he doesn't look like Brad Pitt in his photo
it doesn't mean that he isn't charming or a potential match if a man takes the
time to message you then be polite and give a minute or two of your time by
answering him if you strike up a conversation then keep it going
bailing cold turkey isn't fun for anyone so if you feel like there's no
connection between you after chatting for a little bit than be polite and say
so don't worry about hurting his feelings
believe me it's worse when you actually just vanish when messaging a match be
sure to keep the conversation light enough beep no one wants to hear about
how your marriage brutally ended or how you can't seem to find a good guy sure
it may be true but the only message he's going to get from that is that you're
picky or you seem to have a problem meeting people so again keep it Pleasant
lastly don't overdo it with emoticons a well-placed smiley face most definitely
can add to a conversation but if you're blasting these off along with thumbs up
and other symbols then it's going to a make you look lazy and be like you're
unable to hold a proper conversation so again use your words to show them what a
great catch you are and be yourself well now it's your time to weigh in do you
have any tender tips to share if so I would love to hear from you so please
post those along with any questions you may have but what I've covered in the
comment section below I'll do my best to get back to each of you as soon as
possible again if you enjoyed this video or found
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message in the comments and I'll do my best to put together a video for you
well that does it for this time as always thank you so much for watching I
hope you got something useful out of this video and that you put these tips
to use until next time be sure to stay positive and I'll talk to you again soon