and i'm so excited to be in this room because the words that i say in this moment can fuel the rest
of your life so this is not an ability room like this is not we're not talking about ability we're
talking about activating this greatness that's in us your abilities are your abilities i'm not going
to be able to today i'm not going to be able to help you to do anything that you do better like
i'm not going to be able to give you a gift that you don't have but what i will be able to do is
help you today operate in a way you've never operated before right i will i will help you
to operate in a way you've never operated before i'm gonna help you to do some things that you've
never done in your life before and as a result you're gonna be able to go to a whole new level
so this is we have to start here we have to start here just just write down those those those those
things one or two or three things that that you have to desperately get done before this year ends
this is it's desperation i don't have a choice i don't have an option you got to get that done
i read this week i read this week somewhere that
a golf ball when they made the first golf ball they made the cover smooth
they made it smooth and after they kept hitting the golf ball and they kept hitting the same
golf ball they discovered something that when the golf ball was smooth it would travel only so far
but they noticed that the golf balls that had been hit a few times that were bruised they
noticed that the bruised that the rough golf ball went a little farther than the smooth ones went
and so they went back the engineers went back they
went back and they created what we know now as a golf ball with dimples
because they travel a little further i'm here to tell you today
that the reason why god is allowing you to go through what he's allowing you to go through
because you've been too smooth and you ain't going as far as he needs you to go
and so god is allowing you to go up the rough side of the mountain not so he can hurt you or
break you but god is trying to change the he's trying to redesign you so every trial you go
through every tribulation you go through every step back you go through god has redesigned you
and putting more guilt on you baby so you can go further what are your limiting beliefs
where did they come from and why are you continuing to live by them
my mom son i don't know about this entrepreneurial thing you get you need to get a real job
a real job i said my what's a real job security benefits longevity
security i said oh look you mean like damn you had gm and ford and all three of them crashed
my mom told me son you need to get a real job you need some security i said like ford motor
company that crashed and let go uh thousands of his workers like that type of security like gm
that let dad go a year before he was supposed to get his pension oh oh like that kind of security
that's kind of security you talking about ma i'd rather i'd rather be my security
i would rather if i'm going to put my entire life
on somebody i'd rather bank on myself than bank on another institution
i'm sorry so my i love you you want to talk about raising kids great let's talk about raising kids
but you don't know about entrepreneurship so let's not have that talk and everything i was
taught about working a job i had to get that out of my mind except that getting a coach will
accelerate your learning curve we bless right we ble you guys are blessed with dean you're blessed
whoever he tells you whatever he tells you to do can you do me a favor here's what i hate
i hate when i coach somebody like i've had a friend right and he was like e.t i'm putting the
basketball court up in the backyard how should i do it i said don't put it back don't put a
basketball court in your backyard don't do that so he did it anyway and he got messed up he was
like e how do i fix the basketball court in my backyard that you told me not to put up
what what what what i said it again how do i fix the basketball court in the backyard
that you told me not to put up in the first place that's what some of you do you have
coaching but you're not doing what the coaches tell just do what they tell you to do how they
tell you to do it when they tell you to do it and everything is going to work itself out
identify why you're fit what makes your talent and we talked about that who are you once you know who
you are then now you know who your clients are your clients are those people who have exactly
what you have and they're not using it or they're the opposite and they'll never have those gifts
and you're going to support them by giving them those gifts right give yourself permission to be
to do and get everything you're capable with no limitations so when i started listening
to adele adele blew my mind because as i was listening to her music i could tell i could tell
i could tell that this was real to her and as i started studying the girl i found out i discovered
hey man i discovered that she had been through a breakup hey man when she got in the studio
they said look this thing is crazy they said her album 21 like she was started the album stopped
for months because she had no creativity right it broke her it broke her it broke
her so much god is so good sometimes he got to break us to bring the creativity out of us
he breaks her he breaks her he breaks her heart and she goes into the studio and when she goes
into the studio she just doesn't sing something she made up she actually sings something that's
true to her heart at first yup she's gifted yep she knows how to write but it was kind of
in the outer space but then something happened to her something broke her and when that thing
broke her something within happened to her at first it was just external but then something
internal happened and sister girl got up and said take me in the studio
turn on the music play the music turn on the sounds to put my headphones on i got something for
and she's saying it like she never sang anything else and let me tell you something how that pain
how that hurt came the best album the best single the best song and six grams why you
always gotta have somebody co-sign with you what you know is right in your heart why your
boss gotta say yes too you don't need two yeses from one from you and one from your boss this
ain't your boss life it's not your supervised life this ain't your spouse life it's your life
i still got a call in i still got a gift that i want to use i'm not ready to put my gift on the
shelf right now i'm not ready will i back down yet i'm not doing 75 of what i used to do but i it's
something about waking up and knowing that i want it it's something about waking up and knowing i
got to be in arizona it's something about waking up knowing that there's going to be an audience
that's waiting for me it's something about walking in my gift it's something about knowing what my
dlt is something about knowing who my heart it's somebody showing up and being a blessing
not just about the money you guys about to be a blessing so many people you are not where you're
supposed to be because of you you are not where you're supposed to be financially because of you
it's all you and it's because you're having a bad moment you are human you are human i had a
thought the other day human and i had it i was on the treadmill i had it for about 60 seconds
then i had it for 90 seconds and i was like let's stop right now let's stop
let's stop let's stop right now i don't know why you're thinking this because it is not
helpful to where you are and it's not helpful the way you're going human it might have been
tuesday or wednesday i was on the treadmill just some dumb random dumb stuff came in my
head just random dumb stupid stuff and i was like i do not accept that this is my brain not yours
i do not accept this thought right now this thought is not healthy for my wife
it's not healthy for my kids it's not helpful for eta it's not helpful for apoc it has absolutely
no it's not helpful for those of you who i help i cannot do a video from this energy right now
there's nothing healthy about what just came in my brain i will not just let it sit there and
take residence you have to go and so i had to think a another thought that was the opposite
thought of that thought and i had to say that for 90 seconds and guess what happens as powerful as
the brain is and as many things that it could think of in the subconscious mind in seconds it
cannot have two opposing thoughts at once your brain does not work that way it cannot think
of two things at one time you can only think one thing at a time and i decided that the thing that
randomly came to my mind i didn't want to think about that don't drown your voice for they voice
like close your ears and hear your voice you know what's gonna happen
when you hear your voice and do what you're supposed to do you're gonna be able to bless
your spouse and your kids and your family the way you think when you're listening to them
you