﻿Hi Friends, do you want to know if he wants a serious relationship with you? Sometimes it can
leave you scratching your head but luckily we have put together 14 signs you can look out for to see
if he is serious. Let’s dive in. 1. He will do whatever you need
If he's assisting you, keeping his promises, and showing up when he needs to show up,
there's a high probability that he likes you.After all, if a guy wants to be in a relationship with
you, he'll demonstrate his interest with actions. You're very important to him, and he doesn't want
to let you down. In fact, he wants to be your hero and come to your rescue.
According to research published in the Physiology & Behaviour journal,
testosterone makes men feel protective toward their partner's safety and well-being.
Men desire to be your hero. They want to step up and offer and defend their
partners. This is something that has been coined the ‘hero instinct.’
The bottom line is that a guy won't fall in love with you if he doesn't consider you his hero.
This may sound ridiculous, but women don't require a "hero" in their life these days.The
truth, though, is that men still need to be heroes. Because it's in our DNA to look for
connections that allow us to feel like a hero. If he truly loves you, he would want to defend
you. Guys aren't great at expressing their emotions, but their actions don't lie.
2. He shares with you his goals A guy who is truly interested in you will
describe his long-term objectives and aspirations for his life. This is how he lets you know
what he wants to achieve in life, and whether or not you are on the same path. He won't tell you
about his goals if they aren't similar to yours. He does this to provide you a sense of what he
sees in the future and what is truly important to him.
3. He asks you questions upon questions... If a man can sit for hours on end and ask
you personal questions and express genuine interest in your answers you can take it as
a serious positive indication that he likes you. It takes work for a guy to be inquisitive. They'll
ask questions when they're interested in a lady and want to create a connection.
Because it indicates that he's eager to form a rapport with you.
He's absorbing everything you have to say and then turning it into something more profound
about who you truly are.If he's seeking a solid connection with you, and if you're
looking for a strong connection with him, then he wants to be in a relationship with you.
4. He dishes out the gossip about his family and friends
One of the most significant things to look for is how he discusses his friends and family.
He's probably not concerned about the future if he just touches the surface and offers you
little about his weekly interactions with them However, if he rattles off all of his family's
annoying habits or his sister's obnoxious behaviour, it's a good indication that he
trusts you with the family secrets and thinks you'll be around for a while.
5.He shares his feelings openly When a guy reveals his vulnerable
and honest side to you, it's a good indication that he's looking for a long-term relationship.
Most men avoid revealing this aspect of themselves to just anybody for fear of appearing weak or
flawed in their viewpoint. So if he tells you how he feels, you can be sure he is serious.
When he gets to know you and his sentimental side begins to show,
you're on the road to commitment. It takes a lot for a guy to be emotional, and it is an indication
of trust when he reveals his softer side. 6. The future and 'we'
If a guy includes you in his future plans, that is another good indication that he wants to develop
a relationship with you. If he starts to say the word ‘we’ frequently, then he's looking
at creating a long-term connection with you. He obviously cares about you enough to include
you in his plans, whether they are short-term or long-term. He'll include you in his business
ideas and life goals; he'll include you in family gatherings, among other things.
7. He spends the majority of his time with you The way he makes time for you is one of the
most telling signs that he wishes to have a serious relationship with you.
If he likes your company and respects your attitude, he will always make time for you.
Guys are rational, and if spending time with you makes him feel good,
he will go through hoops to be with you. Time is a sunk investment in a future relationship
with you, and the more time he spends with you, the better he will get to know about you.
8. He doesn’t play games If a guy is truly interested in dating you,
he won't play games. You know, those stupid little games like blowing you off or leading
you on before doing something else, and so on. If he's truly interested in you, he won't waste
his time playing mind games or employing mixed messages. He knows that if he tries to win
your heart by confusing you with all of these psychological tactics and conflicting signals,
it will completely ruin his chances. If you constantly find yourself doubting his intentions
and where the two of you stand, you best leave. 9.He ends seeing other people
You should not have to worry about whether he is serious about you if he stops seeing
other people. You are so great for him that he doesn't need to seek for anyone else.That's a
pretty clear signal that you're the only person he wants to be around because you make him happy
and nobody else can replace you. 10. He listens to you
When a guy truly listens to everything you have to say, he's quite serious about you. It may appear
to be a simple activity, but when a guy pays attention to everything you have to say, he's
really interested in getting to know you better. This is because listening demonstrates that
he cares and acknowledges everything you say. Especially when he remembers even the
tiniest details from all of your tales and woes, you can be certain he cares
11. He doesn’t run away when you mention, commitment
If he doesn't run away whenever you mention the word commitment,
he isn't scared of committing himself to you. Because he genuinely wants to be with you,
and if given the opportunity, he'd label your relationship. If a guy isn't interested in you,
though, he'll avoid that topic entirely and change the subject.
12. His words are his actions When a guy is serious about you,
he'll back up his words with his actions. As a result, when he makes a promise,
he'll do everything possible not to let you down or disappoint you. He won't let you down and he
will keep his word because you are important to him.But if he isn't serious about you, he won't
care about keeping his promises or disappointing you. You'll be a fling for the rest of your life
if you're just seeing each other for a while. 13. You are number 1
If he places you on a pedestal, this is one of the indicators that he is interested in pursuing
a serious relationship with you. Guys don't just value anyone above their family and friends,
job, and hobbies. It's also an indication of how devoted he is to his goals for you,
since he places you before everything else.. 14. He lets you know he wants to settle down
There is no surer indication that he wants to commit to you than him telling you
that he wants to be with you and only you. All concerns, questions, and worries will
melt away as soon as he utters them. Guys are generally scared of commitment,
so the fact that he claims he wants to settle down is one of the firm signals he's looking for
a serious relationship with you. This indicates that he doesn't see himself with anyone else!
What are the signals he's looking for a long-term relationship with you?
Make a conscious effort to listen to what he has to say and how he behaves. If he
includes you in his plans, enjoys spending time with you, stops seeing other people,
and states his desire to be with you, then you've got yourself a winner.
If you're not sure about a guy, don't be fooled by games or always wondering whether he wants more
with you because it will drive you insane. Simply walk away, look for someone else, and keep your
faith alive; someone else was meant to be yours. Here’s a few videos on ‘Finding Love’ that are
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