You're trying, you're grasping,
you're controlling, you're forcing,
you're trying to predict, you're overthinking, overanalyzing. And that's
how people live their relationships.
So then, if you are going to prepare your brain and body for a new
relationship, then you would have to become love completely every day.
And that signal then that you're sending out into the field
can carry the thought of your health, your wealth, your relationship,
or whatever.
But here's the cool part! When the heart is activated like that and you
feel so whole,
so in love with life, so satisfied in the moment, so exuberant that
it's impossible to want,
now you're no longer in lack!
Now you're so whole that you will magnetize
wholeness in your life!
The person who's the person that fits the mold energetically, that
would be the same as you and yet compliment you,
so that the two can become one, right?
And then, instead of in contrast, in union you exchange information
equal to that emotional state.
In other words, people use each other to reaffirm their
dependence on certain emotions.
You have certain people, you complain about politics or whatever,
they complain back about their lives and you use each other to
reaffirm, you know, some type of belief about life
emotionally. You have emotional agreements on things.
Well, that emotion is energy, and energy is frequency.
And frequency carries information.
So, you share the same energy, you share the same information.
But that's what people do in their lives. But now, in a truly
loving relationship,
when you're truly in your heart,
then the question is: What would love do in the relationship?
And when your heart is open,
it's no longer about you.
This is about how I feel
so amazing, with you
I feel even more amazing, but without you - I'm still whole.
And so now, I'm no longer in need or lack.
And so now, when we get together and our fields interfere, when they
start interfering, now the amplitude
gets way higher, there's way more energy.
And now, I mean, I'm all about all 7 centers of the body lining up.
All of them.
We're here in a body,
let's enjoy it all. But come from love. And so now your heart is so open
that you can't do anything else but give. You feel so amazing,
you're so happy with yourself,
so happy with your life,
so happy with what you have you want other people to feel the same way!
And you say: Here, take that! And when you give now, guess what happens?
You release more oxytocin, more nitric oxide,
and more of those chemicals that cause the heart to swell even more.
Then all of a sudden, your immune system gets stronger. And all of a
sudden your body starts feeling better.
You start having more energy.
And now,
the constructive interference between two people that are coming
together in wholeness and no longer dependence, or lack, or separation,
or need, is a different game.
So then, what they do to protect, to nurture, to grow, to evolve that love
is one of the most important things that they have. Not because they're
doing it out of obligation, or because they're married, or whatever.
It's just, they can't not do it!
We see people,
we had so many scanned
the other day in our workshop
in profoundly high amounts of gamma, she can do it on command.
And there's an incredible arousal that takes place that goes along with
these high brain frequencies, that you can only describe as ecstasy or bliss!
Now, you're getting that ecstasy and bliss not from anyone or anything
out there.
No drug,
no person, no football game,
no shopping spree is doing that.
Somehow it's coming from within. Like, what is that connection
that you have?
And so, one of the scientists said that this woman:
How do you do that?
You know what she said? I have difficulty not doing I can't not do it!
When I'm doing this,
it's too good.
So now, that could be a constant feeling in your life.
So now... What love? Independent of anyone or anything,
it's coming from within you!
Okay? So think about this. Your love is not wavering,
it's constant, right?
So now, imagine having this feeling, and when oxytocin is released, what
most people don't know is that it seeps into the amygdala.
And there's certain survival emotions in the amygdala - fear and anxiety,
aggression and anger, pain and suffering. And it literally shuts
the lights out in those circuits in the amygdala. And there's only one
thing left - love and joy, right?
So, now this person is suppressing the survival center,
resetting the baseline of the past,
how they perceive the past.
And now, the research on oxytocin shows that when you have just a
slight, slight level of increase, and our research shows our
students are way outside of normal, that it's impossible to hold a grudge.
You know why?
Because the feeling feels so good,
why would you judge another person, or why would you react to some
condition and lose that feeling? You figure it out
really fast.
So, this birth of unconditional love really says: I'm in love with
myself, my connection to some Divine intelligence within me.
And because I'm so in love with life
and with myself,
I'm looking at life through the lens of love. Which means - I'm going to
allow you to be whoever you want
around me.
I don't really...
I'm no longer...
Because I've overcome my fear.
I've overcome my anger, and now I'm ready for love. And now, that
relationship that you have, if you find that equal, that's a needle in
the haystack. Because now it's a vibrational match!
And so, as long as you're evolving, as long as I'm evolving, as long as
we're sharing the same ideals, as long as we're working together,
as long as we have our independence and as long as we come together,
and we bring our best, and I say to you: How was your day?
What did you learn?
Or let's start our day.
So how you going to be today?
Come on, let's just support each other.
So, what are the programs you're going to stay away from? Are you going to rush?
You know, what did you do yesterday that you want to improve today?
How can I support you?
How can I love you in that?
You want to text at noon?
What do you need?
And then, how am I going to be?
Okay, tell me how you can, vocalize it.
Articulate it!
So that now I understand your intention and I can support, that's good.
And so then, when the person can articulate it, what are they doing?
They're rehearsing in their minds who they're going to be!
And so, now they're becoming conscious of that future.
And then they have to work on staying conscious of their
unconscious programs, and by articulating that - they're
not gonna let those thoughts slip by as well.
So then, now you have two people
in evolution!
It's no longer about all the other things.
It's not about the money.
It's not about the sex.
It's not about the diet.
Those are all things that we already know.
This is something else!
This is a whole nother level where, when you exchange and evolve on
this level,
it's the most important thing! Because now you see that person as a mirror.
Oh my God, she did amazing.
I'm in love with her.
I admire her.
Wow, she's got it going on.
She executed today.
She got her behaviors to match her intentions. And I want to celebrate her!
Like, wow, I'm in awe. That to me,
you don't work on that.
You work on you, everybody works on themselves and then they bring
their best. And if they're not at their best, excuse yourself and get
back to your best.
And if you tell me it's that person or that circumstance,
we went back to the unconscious program of being a victim.
Nothing wrong with that, nothing wrong with reacting.
But the next question is: How long? Staying in this mode, right?
Or do you want help getting out, right?
So, I think that when you start feeling those elevated
emotions and your energy is synchronized,
and you got a Wi-Fi signal. And what are you connected in
in this sense of wholeness, this sense of love, this sense of joy,
this satisfaction with yourself in your life?
I mean, I watch this Lewis.
I mean, people come to our events for all kinds of reasons.
Some people come for health, some people come for wealth, some people come for relationships....
It's really funny and they show up. Angry people, they're angry with
themselves. When they're angry with themselves,
they'll be impatient and angry with others. People who are unhappy
with themselves will punish other people so that they can feel their
unhappiness.
That's who they are.
That's the emotion
that's driving their behaviors.
People who are in love with themselves will find love and others.
People who are happy with themselves
will find something that they can connect with.
They won't see all the flaws.
They'll see some part of them that they want to enjoy.
So, if you're in a relationship and you've scrubbed the
cupboard, and you've taken out all those skeletons and you've looked
at them and you said: I don't want to bring this into my relationship.
I don't want my insecurities to be there.
I don't want my fear to be there.
I don't want my judgment
to be there.
I don't want my emotions from other relationships to be there.
So, let me finish this.
In other words, if you want love in your life in your future, then you
better take care of your frustration. Because you can't bring that there.
You got to leave it.
So then, you may say to me:
Well, it's because of that person and this emotion from 15 years ago.
My ex makes me feel frustrated.
Let me tell you something.
The only reason that you're thinking about your ex is because you're
still in frustration. You overcome frustration,
you'll look back at your ex and you'll be like: I wish them well!
I'm not connected to my past any longer.
So, cleaning the cupboards and getting down to those thoughts that slip
by people's awareness all the time,
their behaviors,
they complain, they make excuses,
they say: It'll never happen. What do they do?
And the emotions that keep them connected to their past.
They won't, they won't even see that person. They'll walk right
past their
future relationship, they'll never recognize that person. Because they're
looking at their future through the neurology and the chemistry of
their past.
And the brain only learns by,
we only see reality based on pattern recognition!
I memorize your face and now I know Louis.
And if the pattern matches, I know. But if you're creating a future
and you're not clear on that future, and you want all these things,
but you haven't
addressed all those circuits, and behaviors, and emotions, and chemicals
of the past,
you won't recognize the pattern!
You'll walk right past the relationship, you'll never see it!
So, I think that the preparation for the relationship,
the overcoming, and overcoming, and overcoming, and overcoming, and overcoming,
and becoming, all of a sudden
now says: I am worthy! And the Universe only gives us what we think are
worthy of receiving!
So, when you're worthy to receive, it's not going to be on match.com
When you're looking at body parts and whatever else.
This is going to be like caching! Energy in action!
Like, that came out of nowhere! Because when you're in survival,
and you're in separation, and you're in lack, and you're forcing,
and controlling, and trying to predict outcomes - your matter trying to change matter!
And of course, it's going to take time for this to happen.
Because you're creating a 3-dimensional reality. And everything in
3-dimensional reality
it takes time. But when you're creating from the heart, with the coherent
brain and a coherent heart, and you got that 5G Wi-Fi signal, it's not
like you go anywhere now.
The experiences are coming, you're drawing the event to you!