this video I'm going to show you how to become a master of importance or in a
way you could say a master of decreasing importance and how this is the key to
vibrational resonance with the reality you want to experience welcome back to
another video my name's Erin and I help people expand their consciousness now in
this video I'm gonna be sharing with you more about the energy dynamic between
what you want to experience in your life what you want and what you are
vibrationally putting out because many times there are two different things
when we are putting certain things into different categories of importance and
have you ever felt that near life maybe you felt like before there is something
you really really wanted and the more you wanted it in a way you were getting
a reflection back of not having it because of that in a way many times
desperate energy desperate energy of putting that out there I've I really
wanted which remember anytime you really want something you are vibrationally
saying I really don't have it because if you had it you wouldn't want it because
it would be a natural part of your vibration now I remember this especially
back in like high school if I really liked a girl I would be thinking about
her and I would you know want to call her or and the more I would put her on a
pedestal in my mind then when I would go to school the next day and I'd be around
her there'd be like this energy of like you know she doesn't know how much I
like her and then what I would find out shortly after that is that that energy
was very repelling so what you eventually learned it's almost like why
all you know that that saying like girls like the bad guy or however you know in
2020 now almost but you know how they say that it's like oh like that there's
that the archetype of the bad guy like the guy that wears the black jacket and
walks around all cool dessert really care it doesn't really care about
anything and then it's like people are attracted to that
well the idea behind that is when you don't care about it in a way you're not
making importance and many times even think
about it in the dating world if somebody if a let's say a certain type of girl
who's you who's used to or guy either way that's used to a lot of people
coming up to them and being like you're so cool oh my goodness your mother
you're so amazing why don't you just do this with go out with me or something
like that that's a desperate energy and in a way
even they can vibrationally feel that it's put them on a pedestal they don't
enjoy that maybe the first couple times they enjoy it but after that it just
begins annoying the idea then is who can be the most natural around me and the
person that's the most natural is going to be the one that they want to go out
with who's the most natural it's natural for them to be talking to them it's not
on a pedestal because otherwise there's not that resistant energy going out
that's very unattractive now I know we're talking about that mainly I'm
using the metaphor of the whole dating world because many of us probably have
experienced that at some level before really liking somebody than feeling that
resistance and absolutely repelling them and this is why many times as well
energetically have you seen it - our like maybe a boyfriend/girlfriend
breakup or a boyfriend boyfriend breakup or a girlfriend girlfriend breakup and
when they break up what happens is one of them is very sad about it thinking
about the other one a lot and then the other ones like I'm just gonna do my
thing over here maybe they're not even really talking maybe this one's trying
to talk to this one a lot but this one doesn't want anything to do with this
one because it's watch to just be single and stuff well guess what happens then
this one goes out with their friends and eventually is like opening up and
starting to forget about this one and then this one can feel that this one's
not thinking about them even longer they have it put them on a pedestal in their
mind and then they're like hey what's going on over here happens all the time
because they could feel that energetic pool going away that importance being
taken off so now the key to understanding this is I'm going to share
with you some practical tools and techniques for becoming a master of
importance and in a way also think of it like a cat a cat is a master of
importance cats don't care you could you could have a cat that walk walks around
and it does not care about your attention sometimes it might enjoy your
attention doesn't really care about what you do
and and in what you want it to do especially you might want the cat to go
do over there it don't care what you want it to do
some cats I think art in a way domesticated and I have a my dad has a
cat that is like a dog literally like a dog and that's because it's also a cat
that's around for other dogs but or three or four dogs but the idea is that
abnormal cat normally does not have any it does not put any importance on
anything it just kind of walks around it does its thing you could leave for like
two weeks and it would be totally fine most of them maybe some networks certain
type of domestication but the idea is that cats are just neutral now you could
say you know this doesn't mean not having emotion because I think cats can
still be loving and you can still you know have an emotional bond with cats
but what I mean by this is cats are masters at importance they don't really
care whether you're here or there doing this or what you think about them and
because of that they have that freedom they truly are really free dogs on the
other hand dogs will they watch your attention they emotionally they're
different in that way they do put importance your their world to them dogs
you'll leave for five minutes and there'll be some dogs I had a roommate
one time that's dog any time he left that dog would screech non-stop for like
for like hours and it's this little animal you're like how is it screeching
for nine hours straight well it just has such an emotional bond
to its owner that it would just sit there and cry and it was it was probably
it that would that was a needy bond you see that was like the opposite of that
of a cat that was like a needy desperate bond where he couldn't even be okay for
two three hours but he went away to a hockey game so that is the idea behind
this now which way would you rather manifest
would you rather manifest like a dog where you really needy and you you
really want the attention or would you rather be more of a match sort of
important scat still get what they want the cat still get what they want they
still get the food they still you know they they have
ultimate freedom to a lot of times they can leave you you would trust a cat to
leave in the backyard and come back and even if it's not it leaves the property
it still comes back it's there's that level of a freedom that cats have so I
know this is just a metaphor but let's go into the deeper part of this now and
understand this because if there's anything you really really want you are
vibrationally resisting having it so the key to this is understanding your energy
dynamic which is where you currently are and where in your mind you haven't
linked up your self-image you see that's the thing what you are okay so support
example if there's a really attractive guy or girl that on a scale of 1 to 10
you would say is like a 10 out of 10 exactly what you would want
right I mean it's not good to put labels on this stuff but this is the analogy if
you approach them and you think of yourself as a five and then as a 10 that
energy dynamic will put up resistance but if you were to approach them knowing
that you're a 10 now time to tell what looks by the way I'm talking about
personality I'm talking about self-worth I'm talking about feeling like
unconditional love about yourself and if you approach them knowing and and in a
way there's two ways to do this what you could do is first off this scale system
I know it's not the most ideal that you want to use it but the idea is that you
could see yourself as the 10 out of 10 so that when you approach someone else
that in your mind you're like this person is the best thing that I've ever
seen or been around in my life then it's like you're meeting at equal
the other thing you do is realize that in a way everybody everybody has it's a
do look what you think of somebody and when you put them in your mind as a 10
there's still everyone's human doesn't mean you think less of them it just
means you go in it knowing that everyone is still human so there's going to be
sides of somebody that may be the most beautiful best personality you can
imagine there'll be a side to it that's not as glorified and amplified in
your own mind now does it make meaning think of them less or anything it means
that you think of it more as natural you think of it more as natural you realize
the two facets of the coin you realize that even though someone may be so
beautiful and have such a great personality
there's gonna be sides that balance it out and what I mean is maybe certain
personality quirks you never know you don't know on the surface but knowing
that makes a little bit easier because when you realize that then it's like
you're not putting them on a pedestal in your mind but first you fill up your own
cup you view of yourself as this metaphorical ten you see so same thing
say you want to manifest you know here's something I've been doing recently is
I've been looking at houses and I think I picked the house I'm going to you'll
see it like a month I can't move into this house like a
month because um there's a I'm only renting but there's this house in Vegas
I've looked at like seven five four six houses I don't even know four to six
houses I've looked at and I realized that the more I really really want a
house there's like what a house I looked at yesterday
Wow I really really want that there's another house that I really really want
as well I really liked both but what I realized is that even though I really
really liked them on paper and I saw the pictures of them when I went to go see
the house then I realized that double sided coin and even though in my mind I
was glorified at this one house I was looking through was amazing very
beautiful very open but you win when I went in it was a little bit cold it was
a very big house - it was way too big for where I'm at I'm it's just me living
in the house I don't need you know a lot that many square feet however this house
I looked at which is ginormous would have been a huge AC bill it was it was
beautiful though it was like so nice it was like so open I think I could do
events there had amazing pool in the backyard
I had a theater room that was really cool that almost I was gonna turn into
my office but there were way too many bedrooms I didn't I was like what okay
one meditation room one this one that and it's too much space I feel kind of
lonely Park in or out who'd be like oh look look at all this space but what am
I gonna do so even though I looked at it in my mind I'm like this could be
amazing there's two facets side to it you know and when you realize that and
here's the thing - I realized I was good either way whether I go in this house or
not I'm gonna find that I trusted in the universe I trust in the process of the
abundance and having that trust knows I'm gonna find something else
so really importance is as well is about trusting the process knowing that you
will get you set your intention on something and
I already intended to find the perfect house for me that it will come about and
I need to trust that process now that house I looked at yesterday I also have
another house that have actually already been approved for everything I've put
down the deposit I just haven't signed the lease yet so
I'm not I'm not contractually obligated to it yet because I actually have you
seen the house yet it's crazy as it sounds I saw the house
and I was like I know I want this house and I just already applied got approved
and everything and I go see the house today actually it's almost you know how
that goes however it's what I realize though is even if for some reason this
house fell through because I got a wait a month to move so even though it's a
beautiful house as other house it's in the perfect location there's so many
things that are right about it I gotta wait til February 3rd to move in and
right now it is December you know 20-something I got to wait over a month
because the tenant in it still has like a month left on their contract I don't
know why they put it on the thing like the the MLS thing so you know I'm not
gonna have an advance but they did but it's a really nice house I like it
however the point is I need to I need to focus that I'm good either way whether
the house goes to or not because I can trust that process now importance comes
from the ego trying to control things and the ego comparing itself so the egos
like that's very very important and the egos is also saying I'm not I'm not at
that level already but if instead you realize that you are you are 100% whole
and complete and you realize you're good either way
that's what something I had to realize even with this house-hunting even when I
remember when I first there's times when I get into a relationship that the first
like couple months I realized that I really like I I'm a kind of person that
when I do something I'm decisive and I do it like with YouTube I decided I'm
gonna make daily videos on YouTube and I do it every single day for the three
years I do it that's kind of my personality but even in a relationship
it's like okay we're gonna be together and I'm just I'm there you know what I
mean and in my mind sometimes I can end up resisting and kind of putting the
relationship on a pedestal hoping everything goes away my ego likes to
control things sometimes I have a fight I'm like a control freak with certain
things and the more I become aware be and I
think it's because I've gotten myself to a certain level of success by
controlling my willpower so that's how I also do other things in my life not
knowing that I can also trust the process trust it to organically unfold
and the more I you realize your good either way is the more you are more like
a cat if you want to be more like a cat realize you're good either way whether
you do this or where do you do that if the owner of a cat goes or leaves it
don't care and if you are good either way doesn't mean you don't have any
emotion it just means you trust the universe and you know that you're okay
one way or the other if I don't get this house or this house or whatever it is I
know that the perfect house will become available the perfect house will be in
front of me and what it does come though then I go for it
doesn't mean I'm like ah whatever it'll be there in like three months there's
there's an understanding that you can trust the process you have a certain
vision for the direction you're going in and that you're good either way and make
sure that I shared everything that I wanted to and they say in general I was
at a Tony Robbins conference the other day this little poster board right over
here is from you know it's thing that we make go into 20 Robbins and these are
saying in this any talks about he says when you achieve a goal how long do you
think you feel happy and yeah everyone raised their hand like six months five
months 4 months 3 months 3 weeks like it turns out that when you achieve a goal
and I know this from experience when I was like oh you know we just have
800,000 on YouTube it's a great accomplishment I'm very happy and very
excited to have him all of you here however in the mind it's like that would
be so amazing but when it comes it's just natural you see and and maybe it
feels cool for an hour too but then eventually the mind looks for more the
lines looking for other things to do now the key is is knowing that when you hit
a goal you what was generally decided in the audience of 5,000 people is that
when you hit a goal someone between 3 hours and 3 weeks is how often you feel
that accomplishment of that goal that's it so when you talk about importance you
talk about if I were to move in this in most amazing house I'm hoping the most
amazing house and guess what after 3 weeks it'll become natural I'll be in my
new daily routine it'll may be very comfortable place
but it will be natural you see so you get into new relationship it's amazing
but then guess what there's certain things that come up that make it natural
mate doesn't mean it's bad it just makes it makes it more natural so be more like
a cat and realize it can be natural now I do have a meditation as well that is
on the process reality trance or if it's on decreasing importance it will show
you and help you to make your vision natural for you to make it something
that vibrationally resonates it's a very powerful meditation it's actually the
one when I first met my assistant he told me he's like the most powerful
meditation I've done if yours is the decreased importance with the visual
where I'm in the living room and I'm like all that so cool so it's in the top
the description box below listen to it for 21 days watch how it changes your
life other than that be like a cat peace but slow and namaste