hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 signs someone
is thinking about you now let's begin number one the unconscious smile how do you feel when you
think about someone you like embarrassed nervous impatient your brain experiences a confusing mix
of excitement and anxiety which creates a whole lot of tension but all that tension disappears
the moment you see their face you feel happier and lighter you feel like a heavy weight has been
lifted off your shoulders in that picture perfect moment the tension just melts away and you smile a
wide genuine smile so how do you know when someone is thinking about you you watch their face when
you enter the room you see if they smile when you catch each other's eyes if they've been thinking
about you you'll see the stress and tension disappear from their face that sudden relief will
spread a smile across their face the whiter they smile the more they've been thinking about you
number two burning cheeks your body can send you signals when someone is thinking about you
burning cheeks is one of the most common signals out of nowhere your face feels like it's heating
up almost like you have a fever but you're not sick your brain is picking up on small subtle cues
and those cues trigger the release of hormones like adrenaline these hormones expand the
hundreds of tiny capillaries in your cheeks blood rushes into your face to fill those capillaries
which turns your face red within seconds your cheeks are flushed and your skin is burning
all thanks to a smile a compliment or a bit of eye contact now not everyone feels
burning in their cheeks your body can interpret attraction and excitement in all kinds of ways
you may experience an electric current across your skin like shivering or the
chills your hairs may stand on end your skin may be covered in goose bumps all of these physical
reactions tell you the same thing your body is excited because someone is thinking about you
number three gravitational attraction what happens when two people are thinking about each other
sometimes they'll unconsciously attract each other it's almost like two magnets pulling
each other closer together all right let's say you're at dinner with a group of friends
you have feelings for one of your friends but you're wondering if they're thinking about you
watch their body language throughout the night are they slowly drifting closer to you they
may be sitting closer now than they were at the beginning of the night even if they haven't moved
their physical orientation may have changed are they leaning towards you are their hands and feet
pointing in your direction when someone's thinking about you they're caught in your gravitational
pull they unconsciously move lean and gesture towards you they want to be as close to you as
they can because you're constantly on their mind number four hidden glances have you ever felt like
someone is looking at you you see them out of the corner of your eye you swear they're staring in
your direction but every time you turn your head they look away you never catch them yet you can't
shake the feeling do these hidden glances mean anything small glances are a very common sign
that someone is thinking about you when someone is on your mind especially someone you like
your eyes are drawn to that person you try to look at them as much in as often as you can looking at
this person can make you feel happy excited and nervous all at the same time now if you think
someone in the same room is thinking about you just watch where they're looking because they'll
try to glance in your direction now of course not every glance means someone's thinking about you
one or two glances may be a coincidence but what if you nearly catch them staring multiple times
hmm this is not an accident or a coincidence it's a sign that they're thinking of you
number five constant closeness do you see this person everywhere when you go out with your
friends they're tagging along when you go to your favorite restaurants you accidentally run into
them you tell yourself it's just a coincidence but it probably isn't the truth is this person
wants to be closer to you they're trying to get involved in your life any way they can
that's why they wiggle their way into your friend group they want to be friends with your friends
they want to get to know the people who know you best that's also why they eat at your favorite
restaurants they want to learn and explore the things you value they're creating opportunities
to connect with you and get involved in your life so if this sounds familiar don't ignore the signs
you keep running into this person because they're hoping to run into you
number six conversational extension do you know someone who clings to every conversation
whenever you end the conversation they find reasons to keep talking they bring up new
subjects they keep the conversation going even if you say goodbye or goodnight this
is an obvious sign that someone is thinking about you they want to talk to you for as long as
they can they don't want to say goodbye just yet chances are you've been on their mind a lot lately
it's possible they're thinking about you in a romantic way so they're excited to interact
with you they're enjoying every minute of your conversation and when you say goodbye they find
reasons to keep that door open to talk to you for just a few more minutes now most of the time this
happens over text or on the phone the other person may create all kinds of excuses to keep talking
but the truth is you've been on their mind and they aren't ready to let you go
number seven nervous grooming grooming is one of the most telling pieces of body language when
someone grooms themselves they start fidgeting with their appearance usually because they're
nervous grooming can be easy to recognize but it comes in dozens of shapes and sizes
now some people playfully twirl their hair or fidget with their clothing
others are much more subtle but every grooming behavior sends the same message
this person is feeling extra self-conscious around you because of your presence they're
hyper aware of every tiny thing they overthink the way their clothes rest against their body
they panic about the frizz in their hair or the shape of their posture if someone is grooming
themselves they want to look their best they want you to think highly of them on the surface
they may seem anxious or uncomfortable but most people groom themselves for the opposite reason
they're not uncomfortable they've got butterflies in the stomach because they're thinking about you
number eight licking lips this piece of body language is frequently misunderstood in movies
and tv shows characters may intentionally lick their lips to attract another person
but this rarely happens in real life most of the time people don't lick their lips on purpose it's
almost always unconscious licking your lips is a reflexive reaction in other words you do
it without thinking or choosing to lick your lips but what causes this reflexive reaction
when you're attracted to someone your brain jumps 10 steps ahead you start thinking about
physical contact about kissing this person so your brain becomes hyper aware of your lips
are they too dry do they look cracked you can't really see them so you unconsciously lick your
lips to make them more appealing now if you see someone licking their lips pay attention even if
it is unconscious this person may be giving you a sign number nine the direct approach
sometimes the signs are right in front of you on rare occasions people will tell you directly
they'll say i've been thinking about you but once you know they're thinking about you a new question
pops into your head you're no longer wondering if they're thinking about you you're wondering why
alright let's say you get a random text from your ex-girlfriend you haven't talked to this person in
months but out of the blue they send you a message 99 of the time this is no coincidence chances are
this person has been thinking about you they've been thinking about you so much they had to talk
to you now does this situation sound familiar if it does don't overthink the obvious they've been
thinking about you more than you realize number 10 calculated instincts have you ever had a gut
feeling that someone likes you deep in your stomach you know that this person is thinking
about you you can't explain why you don't have any proof but your gut tells you that it's true
should you trust your gut or will your instincts just lead you astray your gut's a lot more
intelligent than you think those instinctual feelings aren't random or psychic in any way
they're compilations of subtle stimuli which your brain has sensed unconsciously these
are often small physical signs changes in smell orientation or inflection you don't consciously
notice any of these signals but your brain does and it communicates those signals to neurons in
your digestive system in other words that gut feeling is your brain sending you a message so
trust your gut it won't always be right sometimes your brain misunderstands cues and signals but
when your gut tells you someone is thinking about you there's a good chance they are hey thanks
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