how do you know when you're dealing with an inner conflict? Stay tuned. This is damon
with NLP Gym inner conflict and how to resolve it
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you next the next clip is a video of me teaching transforming yourself when I
caught it early this year in April and the question came up about having
qualities that seemed to be in conflict with each other and so we got into the
discussion about inner conflict and what's that like what inner conflict
basically is when you have two parts of yourself that seem to be to have
opposite strategies of fulfilling its intent and it can feel like you're being
pulled apart and it can feel like there's a lot of tension inside of you
and I know what I'm experiencing it i feel quite exhausted and like I'm being
pulled in two separate directions and I can't do anything right
so what I recount in this video is a story about whenever I went to my
professor and experience having my first NLP experience before I new LP and what
it was but it had never experienced before
really want to do with inner conflict is you want to understand the two parts and
what it is that they're doing and think about in this way that these two parts
even though they seem to be opposing each other serve one master and that
masters you and each one of these parts as a positive intent for you even though
their strategies may be working against each other and what you do is you chunk
up each positive intent a positive intent another another way to say
positive intent is a value so it's whatever value that part of you is
trying to fulfill so you keep asking
that part of you what's important about that value and then what's important
about that and what's important about that until you get to a point where on
both sides you come to one common value that both parts of your serving and when
you do that again you can realize how to integrate these to include strategy
their service both purposes and serves one master and one higher level value
that's what I speak about in this video I apologize for the not-so-great visual
quality to it and the not-so-great audio quality to it i've since got a better
camera and verified something better microphone so bear with it
enjoy this clip and i would love to hear about your first NLP experience are your
first powerful healthy experience
please leave a comment under this video describing what that was for you i love
hearing people's stories and if you have any questions of course ask those
questions as well I have to get back to you and answer those for you
yeah that's where the one comes him as far as values and you might have to find
where you at some of these are feel like they're certain values if that happens
then you look at first but it's the value of that and keep chucking up to
you find common value because
you really are in a sense programed for all your parts to work together and sometimes they don't because
they're not seeing that battle and that's kind of a crossing your you going
to check up value your lives really my first experience of that writing
professor of psychology philosophy and psychology depth at install
transactional transactional analysis and kosis he had all the stuff and one
semester and it was actually after that I fell into depression didn't have
insurance lot of bad things seem bad during that time slip into a depression
and
health insurance so i could go to a psychologist or therapist pocket
professor in college body here so I called up
I'm in trouble just arrest
he called me and he says free service going to get money to charity or do
community service to go back to school next week and I just kinda talking a
little bit just kind of fell apart all the stuff started and getting parts
integration with pulled on three chairs and kind of like forcing their position
but with my parts open and it turned out of this part is very dominant
domineering and always trying to Florida muscle through things and had this more
sense of freedom part that wasn't into that but very necessary part of me
because it was my sensitivity and then he would have these two hearts going
back for them to have to sit not a little setback say the same person
they're fighting over
it's a question children fight but both trying to serve the same person same
values and that's all that preparation so no matter how conflict your values my
seam you can jump up enough at some point we'll find where they can go
together and that's what is it is something he brings up the book cover
about 16 maybe 17 so i recommend reading because you you'll find probably
actually working with small you're going to have questions and you'll definitely
know all the answers but an unbearable practice sessions to some
right
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