Types of people who will make you miserable if you date them! There are certain types of people you
need to avoid dating and having a relationship with... because they'll just make you miserable!
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month in the description below. If you're new to my content you might be unaware that I was
in a toxic relationship with a narcissist a few years ago, and unsurprisingly I was miserable. The
narcissist is someone who is overly self-centered and lacks empathy for others... we dated for quite
some time and yet on that first encounter I felt something wasn't quite right. I was unsure, scared
and confused... but I thought it was just butterflies in my stomach. I assumed it was love, I persevered
and went on to be extremely unhappy. A narcissist is so self-involved and so difficult that it
really is all about them, revolves around them only... they are the center of attention
and over time you will just like I did become more miserable the longer you choose to date them.
Treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan. Yes I was the idiot
following around taking hundreds of pictures and selfies for her and her social media, making her
feel special and unique, making her realize that she was the best and better than everyone else
One evening a traumatic incident happened in our family business, we just so happened to be there at
the same time, everyone was frightened, scared but it eventually got resolved. However she showed no
empathy and was more concerned talking about how I didn't give her enough attention that evening...
and didn't compliment her on how good she looked! It's her way or the highway AKA I get always what
I want you do everything I say, because her parents raised her to be spoiled. It was in my opinion
honestly utterly miserable dating a narcissist and let me assure you there are other types of people
who you should avoid dating if you too don't want to be miserable like me! Guys please share your
thoughts, feel free to share your experiences and opinions in the comments section below.
The jealous person... this is someone who is overly possessive and constantly suspicious of your
actions. Here are the telltale signs of such a person isolating behavior a jealous partner =
They may try to isolate you from friends and family, believing that this will reduce the chances of
you being unfaithful. Emotional manipulation, they might use guilt to other tactics to keep
you close and discourage you from spending time with others. Insecurity, jealousy often stems from
insecurity so a jealous partner may frequently seek reassurance about your feelings for them
Comparing themselves to others, the jealous partner may constantly compare themselves
to your friends or ex-partners, feeling inadequate or threatened. Overly possessive, a jealous partner
they want to know your whereabouts at all times and may try to control who you spend time with
Accusations...They might frequently accuse you of flirting or being unfaithful even
when there's no evidence to support those claims! Checking your phone or social media
a jealous partner may feel the need to monitor your communications with others on all platforms
Excessive questioning... they may constantly ask about your interactions with others especially
those they perceive as potential threats to the relationship... and trust issues, a jealous partner
may struggle to trust you even when you've given them no reason at all to doubt you're loyalty
These people are utterly draining, you cannot go and relax and enjoy a relationship, being
freely yourself, you'll become more on edge and guarded as time goes on
You may end up questioning your sanity from all the gaslighting... this is extremely
unhealthy, a jealous person will make you feel utterly miserable in a romantic relationship!
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The childish person... this is someone who's incredibly immature and makes you feel like
you are the only adult in the relationship, you're like their parents and the signs of
this person include the following = A lack of empathy, they may struggle to understand
or validate their partner's feelings and experiences poor communication skills. An
immature partner may struggle to express their feelings or discuss issues openly and honestly
Inconsistency, they may be unreliable or unpredictable in their behavior making it
difficult to build a stable secure relationship. Difficulty with compromise, they may struggle to
find middle ground in arguments and only insist on getting their way. Dependency, an immature partner
may rely too heavily on their partner for emotional support finances or decision making
Avoiding responsibility they may have difficulty taking responsibility for their actions and
often blame others for all their problems... they've created. Self-centeredness, they may
prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their partner in the relationship
Inability to handle criticism, a childish immature partner may get very defensive or angry when
faced with feedback or constructive criticism for how childish and stupid they've behaved
I personally dated an immature partner in the past, who just so happened to be three years older than
me... at first I thought it was sweet being the more protective mature man in the relationship
but when I discovered she couldn't drive nor bothered to learn or do basic
things like payments online, hold a job... it drained me and it made me miserable
Do yourself a favor avoid the childish partner... it's not cute it's annoying and draining!
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The liar basically someone who lies about everything and is most likely a cheater
You'll never be genuinely happy with someone who's so dishonest! Signs of these people include the
following = Emotional distance, a cheating partner may seem emotionally detached or disinterested
in the relationship. Unexplained absences, a lying partner may have sudden unexplained
changes in their schedule or frequently they cancel plans. Changes in appearance, they may
suddenly pay more attention to their appearance dress up more often or work out more frequently
Unexplained expenses, a lying cheating partner may have unexplained charges on their bank statements
and credit card bills. Trust your intuition, if you have a gut feeling that something's
off it's important to trust your instinct and investigate further. Secretive Behavior... they
may become more protective of their phone, delete messages or change passwords without explanation
Suspicious social media activity... they may become more active on social media interacting
with new people or hiding certain posts as well. Defensiveness, a cheating lying partner may become
defensive or angry when you confront them with their actions or inconsistencies in their stories
Lastly changes in communication, a cheating partner may become suddenly
colder, more distant, less affectionate or avoid conversations about the relationship entirely
I discovered a partner I was dating lied to me about something very significant in the past
despite me pressing it for a long time and asking and asking and asking... unsurprisingly it hurt me
and made me utterly miserable. Do yourself a favor avoid the liars and the cheaters like the plague!
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Lastly the controller, someone who controls every aspect of your life
they are not to be messed with and can be manipulative and really destructive
Signs of a controller include the following = Isolation, they may try to limit your contact with
friends and family, making you more dependent on them. Blaming you for their actions, they may refuse
to take responsibility for their controlling behavior and instead blame you for provoking it
Monitoring your activities, a controlling partner may want to know your whereabouts at all times
and check your phone and social media all the time too. Lack of respect for boundaries, a controlling
partner may disregard your personal boundaries and make you feel uncomfortable or pressured
Ultimatums, they may use ultimatums or threats to force you into compliance with their demands
Criticism and belittling, they may frequently criticize or belittle you making you feel
insecure and dependent on their approval. Financial control, a controlling partner may try to control
your access to money or make financial decisions without your input making decisions for you. They
may try to control various aspects of your life such as your clothing, eating habits, hobbies and
career choices... and lastly excessive jealousy, a controlling partner may be overly possessive
and constantly question your interactions with others and who you see and what you get up to
A healthy partner should never control you or anyone else you are most likely
miserable because you feel suffocated if you are dating a controlling person!