Hello my wonderful friend! In today's video we're talking about how to get a woman to think about
you non-stop. Specifically five powerful ways to do this. Have you ever really liked someone and
thought about her all the time but maybe you were a little bit nervous and didn't know
like if she felt the same way about you? Maybe you're in that situation right now.
Wouldn't it be really cool if she thought about you nonstop as well? That is exactly
what can happen and the best part is it doesn't take mind games and pretending to be something
you're not. Trust me. I will never teach you guys mind games. Because the truth is they don't work
long term. So if you would like to be able to get her to think about you non-stop without mind games
pay close attention and make sure you watch to the end. Now before we dive in if this is your
first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating
coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and your energy on bad relationships
by learning the skills you need to instead just have your dream girl and your dream relationship.
What you learn today comes from my insight as a woman as well as my extensive training and
research as a certified coach. So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification bell, and give
me a big thumbs up. Question for you: Are you sick of playing mind games? They're exhausting,
right? And as I mentioned before they don't work. I'm about to let you in on a secret.
Are you paying close attention? When she likes you she is going to think about you all the time.
She just is. You are not going to have to play mind games with her to get her to do that. It's
not about mind games. It's about skills. That's what women want. And when you have those skills,
yeah, she's gonna be thinking about you all the time. This is exactly what happened to one
of my clients who took my program. We will call him Jalen. Jalen was an awesome guy.
He had so much to offer. And really he just wanted to love and he just wanted to be loved. But he had
a problem: He either could get no one to notice him, no one to want to go out with him, no one to
be interested in him, or when he did finally get someone interested in him she was a toxic woman.
And so he just had bad relationship after bad relationship and then no relationships and it
was this really vicious cycle. Have you ever been there? It's painful, right? It's awful. Again all
he wanted was to treat someone right and to have that special someone. Have you been there too?
Now thankfully for Jalen he was able to learn from me the things I teach in my program and some very
interesting things started to happen. He learned the right skills, he learned the right game plan,
and pretty soon he was turning everyone's head. Seriously. He would walk in a room
and all the girls would, you know, pay attention and they all wanted him to talk to them and ask
them out and wanted to get to know him better. That's exciting, isn't it? His dating pool became
completely unlimited. He became a 10 out of 10, which is where everybody wants to be,
right? And he was able to completely eliminate the competition like I talked about in this video. If
you haven't seen that one there's a link in the description below. Pretty soon he was the guy
that every girl wanted to date and finding his dream girl was easy and simple and fun instead of
impossible like it was before. Now, would you like to know why that happened and how that happened?
It's actually very simple. He just learned the right skills and the right game plan. These are
the things women are looking for in a man. When you have those things she can't stop thinking
about you. Isn't that exciting? And would you like to learn what some of those skills are too?
Good because that's what we're about to cover. I promised you five powerful ways to know how to
get a woman to think about you non-stop and here they are. The first skill to get women to think
about you non-stop and something Jalen became a boss at is being able to laugh at yourself
and not take yourself too seriously. It really comes down to being vulnerable. Here's kind of an
interesting fact for you: Most of us as humans we are terrified of being vulnerable, right? Because
it feels vulnerable and that's uncomfortable. And so many of us we feel like we have to be
this fake perfection in order to have people like us and think we're cool and want to get
to know us better. But interestingly enough people actually are more drawn to people
who are willing to be vulnerable than people who are "perfect". When someone is okay acknowledging
"oh my goodness, I'm human and it's okay" wow, we really enjoy spending time with people like that.
Now let me clarify. This is not an excuse to say "oh it's just the way I am and they better just
love me for who I am." It's not an excuse to never improve. It's simply acknowledging that you're
human like the rest of the world and it's okay. Sometimes you mess up but you're always trying
your best to be the best person you can be and it's just okay. So if you are someone who's okay
laughing at yourself and okay just kind of taking the pressure off of yourself and everyone else,
wow, that is something women look for in a man and that is something that will get her to think
about you non-stop. Now my second skill for how to get a woman to think about you non-stop is to be
confident that she's going to like you. To go back to my story about Jalen, this is something he did
very successfully. When you do this right you are irresistible. There is something about us knowing
we are incredibly attractive and knowing we have a lot to offer that makes everybody else see it
and believe it and, you know, want to get to know you better. They're more attracted to you.
Now how do you do that? Because it's important to know you can't just say again "you got to love
me for who I am and everybody is just going to love me." That doesn't work. The reason it works
for someone like Jalen is again he learned the things I teach, he learned the skills I teach,
and he knew he had a ton to offer because he had put in that little bit of elbow grease to become
a 10 out of 10 by learning these skills. And so he could hold his head high knowing that he was
a 10 out of 10. And so he just kind of counted on people really really liking him and they did. Now
how do you make sure you're confident instead of arrogant? Because nobody likes an arrogant person,
right? That will definitely not make her think about you nonstop, unless she's thinking that
you're a jerk, which you don't want. Here's the difference: When you are confident
you're okay if someone doesn't like you. For instance, yeah, you go into the situation thinking
"wow, they're gonna love me because I'm awesome. They're really going to enjoy spending time with
me. But if they don't, oh well, and it's okay. If you're not interested in me, I'm not interested
in you, so it's not a big deal." But if you're an arrogant person then you're thinking "no, no,
no, no. You have to love me because everybody loves me because I'm the coolest thing ever."
That's arrogance. Where if somebody's confident they're like "okay, it's fine that you don't like
me. No big deal." Does that make sense? If you want to get a woman to think about you non-stop
this confident attitude is a game-changer. I'm not even kidding. It is so insanely attractive.
But what do you do if you don't feel confident or if you just have no idea where to start
to get that confidence? Is that what you're asking right now? I have a free masterclass
that's going to teach you what will keep you from being confident and what to do to instead
become insanely confident and become irresistible. There's a link to watch this free masterclass in
the description below and I will also put a link in the pinned comment. If you want to
quickly go from feeling lonely and not confident to being insanely attractive and very confident
make sure you give that masterclass a watch, like right now. So let's get to our next skill to be
able to make women think about you non-stop. This skill is being an interesting person. I mentioned
this in this video too. If you haven't seen it make sure you give that one a watch as well.
Here's the honest truth, guys: If you are boring she is not going to think about you nonstop.
She's not going to think about you at all. That's how we are as humans. When someone is interesting,
wow, they're really attractive, and it helps keep that spark alive. This is actually one way to make
sure that your love never dies when you do have that special someone. So how do you make sure
you're an interesting person? There are several things you can do. Mostly you just want to make
sure you're involved in things. If you're someone who just gets up and then goes to the gym and then
watches some TV and then goes to bed and then gets up the next day and then goes to the gym and then
watches TV and then gets up- You're boring, right? But if instead you have hobbies and things you're
involved in and if you're contributing to the world and doing cool things that's what makes you
an interesting person. People love to talk to people who are interesting and that's what helps
her think about you all the time because you're interesting. The truth is she's not trying to
be rude and she's not toxic. If you're not interesting, you're not interesting. Which
is why you must make sure you are involved in things so that you are a very interesting person.
That's what shows her you have a lot to offer. Speaking of which I want to hear from you. Tell me
in the comments what you do enjoy doing. What are some of your hobbies that you are currently doing
and what are some that you think maybe you'd like to get into? Also, while you're in the comments be
sure to comment 'boss!' if you would like more videos on how to get a woman to think about you
non-stop. Okay, our next skill, this one is insanely important because so many men skip
over this one or don't pay attention to this one. And if you blow this it's going to mess it up.
So are you paying close attention? If you want to get a woman to think about you non-stop
how you make her feel is everything. And if you show her that you are interested in who she
is as a person, wow, that's incredible. That makes her feel amazing when she's around you.
That's what makes her attracted to you and that's what makes her think about you non-stop. People
like people who like people. If you make her feel like she's the only person in the room and it's
just you and her and she feels connected to you and like you're listening to her and interested in
who she is as a person that's what skyrockets the attraction. So how do you do this? Well it really
comes down to knowing how to talk to her. Knowing what questions to ask, knowing how to hold your
body language. And this is where most guys blow it. I'm going to be perfectly honest with you.
They blow it here because they just kind of wing it, they don't have a game plan, they don't know
what to say, they don't know how to handle it, and that's what makes her lose interest quickly. This
is why you must have a game plan. And I do cover that in that free masterclass I told you about
so do make sure you sign up to watch that. Again there's a link in the description below and a
link in the pinned comment. Bottom line, guys, having a game plan is a lifesaver no matter
how you're trying to interact with a woman. Do you want her to think about you nonstop?
Make sure you really connect with her and make her feel interesting. And our next tip on how to get a
woman to think about you non-stop is to make sure you have a good motive. It's kind of the saying
"where is your heart in this?" Here's the deal: Are you looking for a happy lifelong relationship?
That special woman to walk by your side? Someone that you can lean on and someone who will lean
on you? Is that the kind of relationship you're looking for? If it is that's great
because that's actually what she is looking for as well. And so what matters most,
bottom line, guys, this is what matters most to her, is knowing that that's the kind of person
you are too. She wants to know where your heart is. She wants to know what your motive is. She
is sick of being used, she is sick of guys lying to her, and she's looking for a man who's honest,
who's sincere, who's loyal, who's real. That's what makes her feel safe, that's what makes her
trust you, that's what makes her fall in love with you, and that's what makes her think about you
non-stop. So your actions must show that that's the type of person you are. If you do that, wow,
she's gonna think about you non-stop and she's gonna get butterflies and she, yeah, she's gonna
like you. Okay let's sum up what you have learned so far about how to get a woman to think about you
non-stop. First, make sure you're someone who's okay being vulnerable. That doesn't mean it's an
excuse to not work on yourself. It means you are working on yourself but you're also okay
that you're human and sometimes you mess up and you can laugh at yourself. Next, you want to make
sure you are confident that people are really going to like you. People love that attitude
and that personality. It's very attractive to be around someone who just is confident that people
like them because they have worked very hard to make sure they have a lot to offer. When you
have worked hard to have a lot to offer you know you have a lot to offer. Can you imagine how good
that would feel? To learn more about this do make sure you watch that free masterclass. There is a
link in the description below. Next, you want to make sure you are an interesting person. If you're
boring she's not going to think about you. But if you're interesting, yeah, she's going to think
about you all the time. Also you need to make sure you know how to make her feel interesting and
really connect with her, make her feel like she's a really cool person. That is insanely attractive.
That's going to make her definitely like you and make her think about you nonstop. And make sure
that your motive and your heart are in the right place. If you're able to show her that you're the
type of person, the type of partner, she's looking for, that right there is what makes you play in
her mind on repeat. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw
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Thank you so much again my amazing friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Hello my
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