loneliness aloneness feeling like nobody understands you like you don't fit in
anywhere can be one of the hardest and most beneficial phases of the spiritual
awakening process if you're watching this right now i would assume you maybe feel
isolated maybe you are alone maybe you feel alone even though you're around a lot of people
you don't feel like they really know you you don't feel safe and comfortable you don't
feel like it would be wise to let the real you out and consequently you just feel like
all alone in the world and if you're also if you're watching this you saw the word spiritual
awakening you probably are going through a spiritual awakening and maybe wondering
why i thought a spiritual awakening is supposed to be some type of positive expansive uplifting
unifying experience with with the personality and the divine supposed to be a good thing supposed
to be great why do i feel so alone why do i feel so sensitive why do i feel so hopeless
i'm going to tell you i don't know all the answers my friend but i can tell you this
i've been exactly where you are i had the same questions the same skepticism of this ever leading
anywhere positive and it did and it did there's a there's a very important reason why you're alone
right now and that's the kind of that's like the main premise of this video i don't want you to
resist it so much like i did i thought there was something wrong i thought i shouldn't be
alone maybe i should get out more maybe i should just sort of settle for people in my life i know
aren't compatible and i i sort of tried all these things that intuitively the whole time i knew were
not the answer but the answer i was afraid of i was afraid of just being with myself undistracted
by other people and distracted by just my relationships and yet that aloneness phase
was so rewarding in the end that it was worth it one of the things
it will help you do right now and i bet right now you're probably already psyched up about this
anyways it will give you an opportunity to explore your inner world during this time i was reading a
lot of spiritual books watching a lot of spiritual videos like hours worth and it felt like this is
all i want to be doing this is perfect this is just all i want to do it gave me an opportunity
to allow some of my what people call psychic gifts to become known to me i realized i was
way more intuitive than i gave myself credit for i realized there are spirit guides in our midst and
you and i we can communicate with them if we choose to but i had to really get quiet
i had to really be with myself in order for that to take place secondly it was an opportunity
to unlearn a lot of the things i thought were me which turned out to be very little
my career my entire life essentially my outlook on life all come to find were sort of conditioned
into me by society by mom and dad by just the culture and i had to really have the time and
space to reevaluate my own outlook on life my own sense of self where i want to go where i want to
invest my energy and time into and from this aloneness phase i finally had the time to do what
i think is very much uh just like neglected in our society and it's a time to like really
self-reflect and find out who you really are and that's the like the the primary thing through this
aloneness space even though it does it does hurt sometimes we're social creatures being alone is
not natural in a sense and there does feel like there's something missing but through all that
you get to find out who you really are at a deep soul level and once you start to discover
who it is you are you really start to be able to build your life from that vantage
point somebody who actually knows themselves somebody who's in alignment with their soul's
destiny you could say purpose mission and then you start to take action and make decisions
from that vantage point and then not instantly but over time your life starts to reflect
the authentic you and that includes even if you're skeptical relationships
i went through such a lengthy aloneness phase of my own spiritual awakening that i really gave up
on the idea of ever meeting friends i really did i came to some type of peace with it sort of it was
like a sad acceptance of my reality which i'm blessed i'm a happily married man i have three
children and i said you know what it could be a lot worse i guess i don't need to have any friends
and i was telling this one woman one time i got this uh this past life regression many years ago
and in his past life progression i was taken back to a life where it was just me
and like at a journal and i was on a boat and the whole life was me on that boat writing in
my journal all by myself and if you've ever had a past life regression there's like a
you know a practitioner and they'll they'll prompt you with these different questions and
she was asking me questions like well what happened what happened in this life i said
nothing i'm just alone alone in writing said well no people i said no i said well how was
that how did that make you feel and i said well it's okay i was okay with it and then right there
in the middle of this past life regression she said you know it's still good to have friends
and that was like within this whole past life experience it triggered me because i was like
no no i've already come to peace with not having any friends but what she said sort of stuck in
me you know stuck with me and i realized man it would be a lot better if i had at least one person
i could be myself around open up to feel safe with somebody that i resonated with
somebody that i could really just have fun with and get along with and laugh with and cry with
and go on vacation with one person would be would be nice but i look around my life and
said you know what i haven't met anyone that even comes close to fitting that bill yet so whatever
but eventually my friends fast forward a few years
i didn't think it was going to happen by my life now is filled with soul mates yeah i
know it sounds out there but it's the straight up truth my life is literally filled with countless
soulmate relationships i have more of an abundance of awesome relationships than i could have
ever possibly ever fathomed and i was i guarantee i'm just lonely as you i was just as lost as you
and i not that we're trying to compare our stories obviously but i know what it's like to feel the
way you may be feeling right now i know what it's like to have given up hope but don't give up hope
my friends use this loneliness phase for what it's designed to do it's helped to help you find who
it is you really are how can any of us expect to find our soul tribe when we're at a job that's not
really meant for us when we're around people we're settling for people that we don't really vibe with
that we're living in inauthentic phony life how can we expect our soul mates to find us they're
not going to be interested they're going to say oh they're doing that not my vibe
you have to strip it all away find yourself and then start building your new life found
on the foundation of the authentic you and then i guarantee you'll be amazed at just
how synchronistically these new people can just sort of float into your life
it happens it will happen to me and it will happen for you anyways my friends i'd be
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