- In this video,
I'm gonna show you the biggest vibrational shift
that I've made in my own life
that has allowed me to create my dream life.
I'm gonna show you step by step exactly what you do
to completely transform your outer reality
because you've shifted your inner reality.
I'm gonna show you
how to shift that inner reality in this video.
Now, the first thing that I want to share
is that this was something that I actually found on my iPad
that I can look back and I screenshotted this in 2016,
a few months before I started to apply it.
It was a four step simple process
that I would look over, over and over again.
And eventually in February of 2017,
I decided to commit to that ideology,
to that simple four step process.
Within six months of applying that four step process,
my whole entire life had changed.
I had gone from
the whole nine to five jobs selling women's shoes
to doing that, plus making daily videos,
to then being able to quit the nine to five job
and only make videos.
And that was an exciting time of my life
because I had then bought my time back,
I was able to get up at the time I wanted to get up,
instead of going eight hours a day to a job,
I would spend like two or three hours making videos.
Like I made three videos a day for the first two months
and I was like three months ahead on content
because I was just so excited
because I had all this time back
and it was something that was very like exciting for me.
So the thing though that changed everything
was when I applied that four step formula,
that's actually very simple.
I'm gonna show you not only how to apply it,
but energetically why it works.
Now here is the four step process, and the first step
is simply identifying your dream reality version of you.
So understand that in a way there are
infinite number of parallel realities that exists.
And this was an ideology
that helped me understand that the version of Aaron
that is already doing what he loves already exists.
It was a way for me to imagine it,
to energetically tune to it that allowed me to then see,
feel and know what does that version of Aaron think,
feel, do?
What is that version of me passionate about?
So what I would do is I would identify that using meditation
and that's the first step.
And let me show you something here,
one of the reasons this works
and one of the ways of understanding this
that makes it so much easier
is understanding that your identity,
how you think, act and feel,
you have an inner self image that you are acting equal to.
Now what happens is your values also make up your identity.
The values that you live by,
for example, a value you can think of,
like what you make important,
how are you getting your needs met?
For me, my values back then
were I at some level valued having a nine to five job.
My identity was working a nine to five sales job
that I didn't enjoy, but I felt like I had to work it.
So what end up happening is my identity was on autopilot
and I had to shift my values,
I had to shift how I was thinking,
how I was acting, how he was feeling,
and I had to shift who I was being.
Now, one of the values was
I had to instead of having people tell me what to do,
I had to initiate my own identity, how I was showing up,
I had to initiate and start taking accountability
and like initiative for my own work ethic,
which meant making daily videos on YouTube,
even though I had a nine to five job.
It's different than someone telling you
when to show up at work telling you what to do,
I had to start valuing a different aspect of myself
to why you're in this new version of me.
If for any reason, let's say you wanna attract love
and you are attracting people
that are emotionally unavailable,
there's a part of you that might feel familiar
with people that aren't choosing you.
It might feel familiar
to have people that aren't emotionally available.
So you'd have to start valuing vulnerability
and showing the real you and authenticity
in order to then attract that.
You must change your own values
before you're gonna see it in the outer reflection.
Now think of it like this,
your identity is your comfort zone.
Whatever you are comfortable doing, whatever is familiar,
you will think and act and feel equal to.
In order to create the love that you want in your life
or the money that you want in your life,
the key is to expand your comfort zone.
This means for a period of time,
the things that you look to that look uncomfortable,
you'll be doing what feels uncomfortable
and then making it comfortable.
You are expanding your comfort zone.
So for me, I started to value making videos,
value expressing myself.
I had to let go of really caring
what other people thought of me.
It was uncomfortable.
Making videos every single day on YouTube back in 2017
was very uncomfortable, but now it's very comfortable,
it's very easy for me because it's a part of my identity.
At one point people asked me,
"Aaron, how are you able to make so many videos on YouTube?"
It was literally
because I'd done it repetitively so many times
that it was a part of my identity,
it was also a part of my new work ethic,
the way that I saw myself.
So the key though is think about it like this,
this is the game changer, this is the biggest shift
and epiphany that I had about this,
even just recently, I'm like explaining this differently
that I think it'll really help.
So the reason you step out of your comfort zone
and you expand your comfort zone
is that as you are doing the thing
that used to feel uncomfortable,
you then get more and more comfortable doing it
to where then it is natural for your self image,
it is a part of the being vibration.
Think of it like two different realities,
two different radio stations.
I want says I lack,
There's a reality where you aren't this new identity,
like for me that was like me not making data videos
on YouTube back in 2017.
There's a reality where I wanted it,
but I wasn't being it, it looked like uncomfortable,
it looked unappealing.
So I'd say I want, I want, I want,
which means I lack, I lack, I lack,
and that's a different radio station.
Imagine all the radio stations already exist
is simply about tuning to the specific frequencies
just like all the parallel reality version of you exists,
you're experiencing the reality you're in
because of your frequency.
And instead there's a reality where I am.
Now the more you step out of your comfort zone
and you expand your comfort zone,
the more that that becomes I am,
that becomes natural for your identity.
I recently talked at a mastermind
where I was explaining to people,
they were asking about how I was able to create
the million subscribers on YouTube and all that
because it was like a business mastermind.
And I explained like every one of you
commit to making content,
commit to making more videos at this mastermind
'cause it was all like content creators
or people with businesses.
And one of the things I said was,
"make daily videos or make a lot of videos
because the more you do it,
the better you get at it and the more natural you feel."
I said people feel what you feel.
So when you start making videos, your first 10, 20, 30,
they may not be that great, but guess what?
You get more and more comfortable by doing it,
you're expanding your sense of identity.
And then as you get more
and more comfortable doing it, you feel better and better,
and then people feel that energy off of you and they go,
"Whoa, I could feel this dude's energy.
It feels good.
There's something about it that I like.
I wanna keep watching it.
I like the stories he's telling or whatever it is."
So the key is expanding the comfort zone
until it becomes natural for you.
If it were maybe a dude that wants to be confident,
one thing he could do
is he could start branching out of his comfort zone
by talking to other people,
maybe going up to this woman he is attracted to
and saying hi.
And then by doing that, at times it may be uncomfortable,
but eventually it'll become natural and it'll become normal,
it won't be this big thing to go over talk to somebody
because you've put in the reps, it becomes easy.
You can apply that analogy towards anything in your life,
but the vibration of being it
is at one point gonna be a little bit uncomfortable
and then you'll expand your identity
and then it will be comfortable.
For me right now, I went the other day
and spoke at a buddy's event of mine, not the mastermind,
a different one where he said, "Hey, come by."
I was at the gym and I was like,
afterwards I just drove to where he was doing the seminar
and I ended up,
was gonna only be there for like 30 minutes to an hour
and just kind of hop on stage with him and talk,
I ended up speaking for three hours with him.
And it was fun, it didn't require that much energy,
and it made me realize
that the more that I do the public speaking,
the more I'm gonna be shifting out of my old identity
of only making YouTube videos
to then shifting into this new frequency
of me being somebody that goes live,
that's able to be in different types of situations
and live events
and be able to like get ideas across on stage
and be able to pick up on the energy of the crowd
and help people have different epiphanies.
And it's something I could tell I'm passionate about
because the more I step into that,
and at first when I said I'd come by for an hour,
maybe that was just my mechanism to like,
it felt comfortable and safe,
but then staying for three hours was like no problem
because I love the energy of it.
So this is what helps you to expand
your sense of comfort zone, your identity.
You're doing this, okay, so here's the second thing,
so first off, you identify the version of you
that is being the most high vibrational version of you.
Make sure it's also something connected to your passion,
connected to your heart.
That's important,
'cause a lot of times people will do something,
'cause "I want the money, I want this."
But like, are you really passionate about it?
Because in reality I believe that like,
reality reflects back to us
while also it's good for our spirit.
And when we're following our excitement,
that's good for our soul, that's good for our spirit.
So the second step
is to choose to behave as that version of you,
the one you identified on step one,
step two is behave, model and mirror
your thoughts, feelings, actions, body language
and values of that version of you now in the present moment.
So you wanna take that version of you and choose to be it.
And what I really encourage you to look at
is the values of that version of you.
You might value adventure,
you might value that of vulnerability,
authenticity, expression.
They may be different values
in the version of you that's in this little bubble.
So for me, that's what I did is I started to value
these new things or even my own work ethic,
even putting myself out there in videos,
like I had to value those things
and then live by that identity.
I saw that the version of me
was making daily videos on YouTube.
So I decided to make daily videos on YouTube back in 2017.
I know you've heard that story many times,
but it's a one-on-one reflection of that.
Now I'm modeling my actions of me doing live events,
and that's why I like went
to my friend's thing the other day,
that's why I'm planning live events.
That's why I've been doing live events.
So I even thought of doing live events
where I just pretty much do these live events
maybe here in Austin, Texas just like once or twice a month
just to get footage for YouTube
so that it's a little bit more dynamic,
instead of me just talking to the video,
me like in a crowd, talking to people,
picking up on the energy
and then putting clips of that on YouTube.
You guys let me know
if that's something you'd be interested in,
and comment below, let me know.
But in general, the second step
is to model and mirror that version of you
and choose to be it.
All right, so identify it, be it.
And then the third step
is to not keep looking to the outside
to know that you've changed.
Tune to the inside and be it
because it's an end of itself,
be it because it's an end of itself.
So that's the important thing though
because what happens sometimes
is people are trying to shift to this being frequency
because they want more money or abundance.
But if you do it as an end,
as a means to an end, to get somewhere else,
it's implying that this present moment isn't good enough,
and it's also in a way
like doing a stare down to that of a mirror.
It's like looking at a mirror and saying,
"I will change my expression on my face.
I will smile."
Once you smile, you're gonna be waiting forever.
And that's a lot of times what happens
when people want to create their dream life,
they're like, they make one little shift on the inside,
they're like, "Okay, why isn't things change?
Why isn't things change?"
Well, that's momentum that's been created from the old you.
And if it's like I will only change
once I've see it outer reflection,
the reason you're making this shift
is because it's who you prefer to be.
It's who you prefer to be,
it's more passionate, it's more exciting,
it's an end of itself.
So become aware of that energy
and don't look to the outside for change,
look to the inside.
How do you feel?
You're doing it because it's who you prefer to be,
you're being it because it's passionate
and it feels good to be that way.
So that's important because a lot of times
people will stay attached to the outcome and then like stop,
and then once you stop, like if I would've,
we talk about frame,
if I would've started making the YouTube videos
and then the first time like a friend or somebody
I was expressing it to and I didn't feel like,
maybe I felt like, you know, even just like boundaries,
I had to have boundaries when I first got on YouTube,
and if people wanted to hang out and stuff
and that was gonna get in the way of me making videos,
I'd have to say no because I was saying yes to my purpose.
So that is something that I had to become aware of
is how to have those boundaries
and how not to internalize what other people say,
because at the time when I first got on YouTube especially,
I remember at one point my ex stepmom
was talking to my younger sisters, that's their real mom
and they were like making fun of my videos.
"Who are you making videos for Aaron?
Your 13 subscribers or 11 subscribers?"
So like, "Yeah, why am I doing this?
There's 11 subscribers."
And instead I used that as motivation and fuel.
So I had to not let that impact me,
I had to in a way like be in my own frame
and not let it affect me in that way.
Now the last step is a really simple step,
but it's one that really helped me,
it is what are you saying yes to
that is blocking you from experiencing this?
So one thing that really helped me
was looking at everything I was saying yes to
and then saying no to things that,
almost like trimming the fat
of anything that wasn't adding to this new reality.
And for me that meant
I had to say no to sometimes hanging out with friends,
that meant sometimes I had to say no to many different,
I had to say no to like
when I saw a negative comment or something,
I'd say no to that, be internalizing that.
But sometimes it helps to look at what you're saying yes to
and what you're saying no to and realize
that when you say yes to something that's not authentic,
you're saying no to yourself.
And that was a game changer for me.
So that was something I had to remind myself of.
And main thing of this four step process
is to choose to be it.
You see like the Nike logo is like, just do it,
just be it.
Just be it.
Realize every moment's a new moment,
every moment you're a new you,
the cells in your body are constantly dying and being reborn
and you're a new you and now you're a new you,
and if you experience and stay stuck,
it's because you might believe that you're stuck.
There's a story that you're stuck,
so there's a recreation of the energy of being stuck.
It's not just one energy, it's being recreated every time,
it's I'm stuck, I'm stuck, I'm stuck.
And instead, you know you can break through,
you know you can break through,
not only you break through, but you are it.
Once you start it, you are it, remember that.
Give yourself permission.
That could also be the fourth step,
just give yourself permission.
When I started making videos,
I gave myself more and more permission,
then I felt more confident
and then people would feel that energy off of me.
And sometimes that's all you need
is just to give yourself some permission
to be this new version of you.
Other people are gonna think it's kind of weird
that you're being this new version of you,
'cause like,
"What do you mean you're setting boundaries with me?
I've always been able to tell you what to do,
you've always been influenced
when I tell you to come to this thing
that I want you to come to."
But when you start setting boundaries,
you're gonna start wiring in a new you,
you're gonna feel more empowered,
you're gonna feel in your own frame.
And as you begin being it,
that's when your reality really changes
and you're being it because it's who you choose to be,
not being it
because it's gonna get you out of your job
that you work that you don't want or whatever it is.
So just be it.
Now if you wanna create identity level change,
one way that you can do that
is you can go to whatsmyvibration.com.
This is where you will get,
I'm reinventing that whole survey if you've done it before,
but whatsmyvibration.com
is a way for you to calibrate your vibration
to understand more about where your vibration is
so that you can then understand
and have a meditation for shifting to a higher level.
So if you haven't done that yet,
go to whatsmyvibration.com to check that out.
And then also there's a video right here,
listen to this meditation for raising your dominant
vibration permanently without shifting back.
It's one of the most powerful meditations,
read the comments
and see as possible and let's do it right here.
(intense ambient music) This meditation
will change your dominant vibration permanently.
Your vibration is a combination.