Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 7 secret thoughts a woman has when she likes you.
There are specific thoughts that go through a woman's mind when she likes you,
when she thinks you're cute, when you give her those butterflies.
Would you like to know what those special secret thoughts are?
What you're about to hear might make you chuckle, might even give you some of those
butterflies, and it will certainly help you understand women better.
You're about to understand how women think like you've even never understood it before.
So if you want to know what these crazy secret things women think are,
make sure you stay with me.
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and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
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Okay, understanding how women think is one of the best ways
to set yourself up for success long-term in love.
This will literally transform your love life and make it far less stressful.
As a coach, I love revealing how women think in my Academy because
that foundation is what takes relationships from frustrating
and empty and insanely exhausting to loving and exciting and fulfilling.
So as we go through this list of secret things women think when they like you, I'm super curious.
I wanna hear which of these surprise you the most, so make sure you tell me in the comments.
With that, let's dive in with the first secret
thing a woman will think when she thinks you're really cute!
The first secret thing a woman will think when she likes you is,
"Does my name sound good with his name?"
Usually, it's your last name. However, she'll play with your first name a little bit as well.
For instance, let's pretend your name is Tom Jones. She'll do something like,
"Jessica Jones. Jessica Jones. Tom and Jessica Jones."
And she'll, like, go through this scenario of what
it would sound like if the two of you were a couple and if you got married.
Maybe that sounds weird to guys, I don't know. But this is something girls start doing,
like, when they're pretty young, actually.
And the more she likes you, the cuter it sounds. So if you happen to have a
really unusual name, don't worry about that. It really has more to
do with the fact that she likes you than how it actually sounds.
This is a way for her to feel closer to you, and it certainly gives her those butterflies.
And yes, she's going to tell her friends all about it. Crazy, right?
The next secret thing a woman will think when she likes you is,
"Will this guy be fun to be around forever?"
When we're dating someone, getting to know someone, we are showing them what it would
be like to be in a long term relationship with us, to spend their lives with us.
And a loyal woman who is looking for lifelong love,
someone she can just shower with kisses every day, that kind of woman wants to make
sure that this is going to be an enjoyable and positive relationship for both of you.
Some of the ways I teach my clients in my Academy how to excel at this and really
just delight her when you're around her are things like boosting your confidence,
your self-esteem, your self image, your positivity.
Those little things are what help her see,
"Holy cow, a relationship with this man would be amazing!"
And that's what makes her long for a relationship
with you. You become irresistible and she cannot get enough of you.
Okay, my next secret thought a woman thinks when she likes you is,
"Will he be okay with the real me? Will he like who I really am on the inside?"
Have you ever felt like you have to hide who you really are? Like you
have to pretend or you have to be kind of fake?
It's miserable, right? It's empty and just makes you feel sick inside.
Sometimes as humans, we're afraid to show who we really are because we're afraid someone will
think we're stupid or dorky and that we will get rejected. And that's a terrible feeling.
So she's asking herself as she's getting to know you if you will be okay with her dorky side too,
if you'll be okay with her vulnerable side and like who she is on the inside.
The happiest relationships are where you have two
people who love and adore each other and support each other as who you really are.
Very authentic and genuine relationships. They're insanely happy.
You should never feel like you have to pretend to be someone you're not in a relationship.
This is something I am adamant about in my Academy,
and teaching you the most effective strategies to find the right gal for
you and have her be completely in love with the real, authentic you.
Because that's a pretty incredible person,
and you deserve a woman who sees that and absolutely adores you.
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My next secret thought that girls think when they like you is,
"Does he think I'm pretty? Does he think I'm attractive?"
This might sound obvious, however, in relationships we often forget
that the other person feels very similar to how we feel.
That nervousness and those worries and feelings of inadequacy are shared by both people.
So just like you're wondering if she's attracted to you, she's wondering if you
are attracted to her. And she's really, really, really, really, really hoping that you are.
This is one reason why I teach about pursuing and flirting insanely well in my Academy.
Because that skyrockets her attraction for you. It draws her to you and makes her feel
amazing when she's around you and really allows that attraction to just grow and grow and grow.
It puts her fears to rest, so that she can get closer and closer to you.
Okay, my next secret thought women think when they like you is,
"Will he be okay that I'm imperfect too?"
As humans, we have flaws, right? That's just part of being human.
There are things about the way we look and about ourselves
that we're self-conscious about, that make us nervous. And she's as
afraid as you are that maybe she's unlovable because of those things.
So she's wondering and really hoping that you will still be
kind and sensitive and still like her and care for her despite those imperfections.
So she's wondering about how you're going to react
if she's not wearing makeup or if she has a bad hair day or whatever it is.
Those things that she's insecure about, she's hoping and wondering if you'll be okay with it.
Just like you want to be loved no matter what, she does too.
By the way, if you haven't yet seen this video on Juicy Secrets About Women,
make sure you watch that one as well.
I give you some other tips like this one that will be very,
very interesting about how women think. I'll put a link in the description below.
My next secret thought women think when they like you is, "Is this a good bet for my heart?"
You don't want to make a bad bet with your heart, right? Well, she doesn't either.
As humans, we wanna make sure that a relationship is gonna work out.
Here's an interesting tidbit for you. Sometimes when you're first getting to know a gal,
it may seem like she's a little bit cold or distant or overly cautious.
When this happens, it's just because she doesn't wanna rush into this. She
may genuinely like you, she's just trying to be careful.
She doesn't wanna hurt herself. She doesn't wanna hurt you. She doesn't wanna waste anybody's time.
And this can cause her to not rush into the relationship and not get too excited too soon.
So the key here is showing her that you are a safe bet really early on.
Showing her how exceptional you are really early on so that those fears go to rest,
and so that she can be excited about a relationship with you and let her guard down.
This is obviously something I help you master in my Academy. However, a great place to start is by
watching that free masterclass because those 3 secrets are life-changing in this area as well.
So again, just coachmelannie.com/masterclass and there is a link in the description below.
My next thought women think when they like you might surprise a few people. This is,
"Is he going to be a good father for our children? How is he going to treat our kids?"
Let me ask you a question. Are you wanting a lifelong relationship? That special,
stunning, feminine woman who's always by your side? Someone to come home to every night,
someone to share stories with, and cuddle on the couch with, all of those amazing things.
If that's what you're looking for, that's amazing,
that's wonderful, that's what you should be looking for.
Know that a woman like that,
she wants lifelong love as well. She wants a family with you as well, and she wants to
make sure that she is going to marry a man who's going to be a very good father to her children.
She wants to be a really good mom and so she wants you to be a really good dad.
Not perfect because guess what, we live on planet Earth where no one is perfect. But
she wants to see that you'd be good at this, that you are trying and that that's important to you.
When she sees that you are mature and kind and loving and confident
and all those little subtle things, that's what helps her see, "Wow,
this man's exceptional. He's unlike any man I've ever met. He stands out
from the crowd. I can see myself being delightfully in love with him forever~!"
Be honest. Did you ever think that these were the things that went through women's
minds when they like you? It's kind of surprising to a lot of people.
Now, here's my question for you.
Would you like my help to master these things, so finding the love of your life
and completely melting her heart so she falls deeply in love with you is fast and simple?
Would you like my help, so you know exactly how to get the kind of woman you are longing for?
These are just a few of the things I help you master in my Academy. And you'll learn
more about how you can join me there and what it entails in that free masterclass as well.
So make sure you watch it at coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
Real fast, let's recap the things that girls think when they like you,
and be sure to tell me in the comments which of these surprised you the most.
Number one is, "What does my name sound like next to his?" And yes,
she's going to try it out and practice it.
Number two, "Will this man be fun to be around? Would I enjoy a lifelong relationship with him?"
Number three, "Will he like who I really am? Who I am on the inside? The dorky side of me?"
Number four, "Does he think I'm pretty? Does he find me attractive?" She wants
to be attractive to you just as much as you wanna be attractive to her.
Number five, "Is it okay that I'm not perfect? Is he going to be sensitive
about that? Is he going to be kind about that? Is he still going to love me anyway?"
Number six, "Is this a good bet for my heart? Am I gambling in a bad area,
or is this someone who I can trust my heart with and fall madly delightfully in love with?"
And number seven, "How will he treat our kids? Is he going to
be a good father?" Because again, if she's looking for that lifelong
relationship and she wants a family life, that right there is critical.
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