[MUSIC PLAYING]
(SINGING) They say home is where the heart is.
Today is decision day.
I have to let one of these ladies go.
I feel bad for it, you know, but this is a process.
We have to get through this.
I'm really nervous.
I'm sweating bricks at this point.
Yeah, I-- I didn't feel good about it, man.
(SINGING) Because I put my all into it, started small with it.
Mike wants to meet with me today on the beach--
beautiful setting, but I have no idea what's going on.
Hello.
Hey, how you doing?
Good.
We're at the end, so I don't really
know what to expect today.
But I'm feeling, like, really emotional,
so I don't really have a whole lot to say.
I'm happy you came out.
I just want to, you know, let you know
where I stand out with you.
Definitely during this process, I have
made a connection with you.
And, you know, it wasn't as strong in the beginning,
and it gradually grew to a place where I didn't
think it would actually go to.
With that being said, you're definitely a great person,
but I no longer want to continue the process with you.
OK. I don't even get a confirm--
I don't even get to take a sip of my coffee
before he just starts--
"listen, it's not you, blah blah blah."
And it's just, like, oh, my god, like, you are just so wack.
Thank you for coming.
Thanks.
And I hope we can still continue to remain friends.
How do you feel about that?
[LAUGHS] I mean, for me, it's not a whole lot to say.
Yeah?
I mean, I'd rather the truth than a lie.
True.
I'm good.
You're definitely a great person,
and I really enjoyed you, you know, getting to know you.
I think I probably did a little too late.
Even though we did have some good dates.
Too late?
Uh-uh, I don't give a [BLEEP] about any of that.
I know you don't.
You have to [BLEEP] do what's best
for you to get where you want to go, or what you really want.
That's just my mentality.
So to me, it's just like an excuse.
Are we 10?
Like, are we kids?
Are we children?
Like, what are you talking about?
If it was strong enough and it was real enough,
then it doesn't matter if it started three hours
after it started with her.
I feel like what we had was stronger
in the less amount of time than what y'all had in the longer.
- That what you feel like? - I mean, it's there.
But--
So you're telling me--
--for me, it's not that fire that I wanted, that
I see with certain couples.
So you're telling me, me being with you is more
fire than me being with Brandi?
I'm just saying how I feel.
I'm asking you a question.
I'm not-- I'm not making any interpretation.
But you just did.
You're going to perceive it however you perceive it.
OK, I got to make you understand.
I think you may not be what I want at certain times.
You may be too much for me.
Oh, well, that's good to know.
Yeah.
Because that can't work.
For him to admit that he can't handle me,
that's good to know, too, because I need
someone that can handle me.
And you don't have the capacity for that,
you need something a little more basic,
then you should go and get that.
Let me say something nice.
I wish you guys the best.
I hope y'all are happy.
You mean that when you say that?
- No. - OK then.
Say something you really mean. [LAUGHS]
Yeah.
It's--
That's the-- that's the polite thing to say.
[SIGHS] No one likes to be rejected, and, you know,
it hurts.
I just hate it.
It's like, bad bitches do not cry, and he got me here crying.
So that's really frustrating.
Ah!
But sometimes rejection is redirection and a blessing.
I'm happy to know now rather than six months down the line,
and then I've invested so much more and then it doesn't work.
Well, just do y'all thing and I'm going to do mine.
Overall, I'm definitely leaving the process
feeling good about myself.
I definitely know that I was authentic, I was real.
I am really ready for love, and this process
has taught me a lot, for sure.
All right, well, I'm going to go--
All right.
--so that you can do what you need to do.
Thank you.
Uh-huh.
Do I get a hug before you go, standing up or sitting down?
No.
Sitting down?
No.
You have someone to hug.
Go hug them.
Oh, it's like that, huh?
How else does it?
No hugs?
You have someone to hug.
All right.
See you later, Kayla.
When I see Kayla walk away, I was trying to find a rock
to throw and hit her in the head with it
because she ain't give me a hug.
I was upset.
You know, it was disappointing.
I didn't feel good about it.
All right, I ain't getting a hug.
I'm not sure if me and Kayla could be friends in the future.
I don't have a problem with it, but I
don't think she would want to be my friend in any future.
Well, that's some good weather out her.
Luckily, my connection with [INAUDIBLE] at this
point, it's super duper strong.
I'll be going up, moseying about my business.
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