Stop wasting time on the wrong women! When it comes to dating and relationships as a man if you're
after something serious and genuine you need to stop wasting time on the wrong women! Welcome to
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description below! Just like how women complain "all men are time wasters" when it comes to dating,
There's certainly plenty of women who waste time too. Women that are too immature, too inconsistent,
too negative, that just won't commit, that have no idea what they want and are too toxic.
It can be confusing for the man who wants to have a meaningful relationship and find a good woman
and he becomes more confused as he goes down the rabbit hole of online dating or reads up
toxic advice on social media on how to treat modern women. For example he's been told to
"Be more red pill, be more ruthless, all women are the same, treat them mean keep them keen,
go after a unicorn only, always be an alpha male..." Whilst personal growth and development
is very attractive and essential for thriving in life...that advice can really get misconstrued
and force men to end up chasing the wrong women for superficial reasons only and it can result
in all or nothing thinking too, which over time can become extremely unhealthy and narrow-minded.
In plain and simple terms if you're hopelessly single and keep finding yourself dating the wrong
type of women just stop doing so... it's as easy as that...you might get a lot of attention, you might
get a lot of dates, you might sleep around a lot, but if you are very clear on what you are after
you need to become more cutthroat and ruthless and may be more specific exactly of the type of women
you are dating. Personally I have been there and done that, so I can share with you from personal
experience how to stop wasting your time and life and money and energy on the wrong women!
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Before you start dating, take the time to understand your values priorities and what
you're looking for in a woman... this will help you identify potential matches who align with your
goals and expectations. In the past I was badly scarred from many rejections, dating experiences,
time wasters and so on... in particular a toxic relationship that I was in for several years
From late 2019 and during the pandemic I was mostly single, until I started seeing someone
in 2021... at the time I assumed I found the right woman, partner and relationship... however
I was mistaken... we weren't compatible, there was no future between us, we ended up splitting up.
From Summer 21 to Summer 2022 I made a list of what I really wanted to find in a woman
and what I didn't want as well, and I stuck to my values... The end goal was to have a relationship
with a compatible woman, the right woman for me. Some of the values I wanted included = She must
be respectful, honest, homely, family orientated, feminine in nature. I stubbornly and ruthlessly
stuck to my guns with dating and the moment I saw the opposite on my list... I was out
In summer 2022 I met my current partner... we're currently still together and going very strong
She's the best girlfriend and relationship I've ever had and unsurprisingly she ticked
all the boxes on my list that I wrote down. I knew what I wanted but also I knew what I didn't want...
therefore for you too to truly stop wasting your time on the wrong women, you need to know
your values, you need to know your priorities... this goes way deeper than appearances and looks
money and status! What do you really really truly want and truly need in a woman? If you're getting
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Be aware of any warning signs or red flags that indicate a woman might not be a good match...
this can include a lack of shared interests, bad communication, a history of dishonesty or
manipulation. The earlier you spot these signs the quicker you run in the opposite direction!
Spencer was an attractive, successful guy who had bad luck with dating,
largely because he kept wasting his time on the wrong women. His past few girlfriends included
the following = A spoilt entitled princess, a woman who had a boyfriend in another country,
a party girl who loved doing drugs, a woman who just wanted to be showered with presents...
It was incredible how every single woman he'd go after or into a relationship with would be
a disaster every time and he was fully aware of the red flags and warning signs, even from the
first date, but chose to ignore them. As a result consistently he'd get badly burnt and heartbroken
Pay attention! The last toxic relationship I was in was with a narcissist for several years and I made a
promise to myself never to date a woman like that again. Therefore I highlighted the signs
and made sure to look out for them when I was single and dating, which included manipulation,
arrogance, frequent lying, shifting blame, obsession with appearance, a complete lack of empathy,
an addiction to social media. The very moment I'd see a woman appear like that towards me or when I
was on a date or when I was getting to know them I was out... because I wasn't willing to waste my time
on the wrong woman, never again... especially what I would perceive a toxic, negative, destructive woman!
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Reflect on your past dating experiences and identify any patterns or mistakes you may have
made... use those insights to make better choices in the future and avoid repeating the same mistakes.
Remember Spencer from the previous Point who had a track record of going for the wrong women all the
time? It made no sense to me... he was attractive, a kind man, successful, how could he have such a
bad track record when it came to choosing women? Then I realized what his problem was... he met every
single girl he dated seriously in a nightclub... he and them would be drunk, they'd go back to
his place that night, next thing you know they were dating! Can you really find the love of your life
or a healthy partner drunk in a nightclub? Probably not... but Spencer never learned from
his mistakes, he'd be single, go out, get blind drunk and repeat the process all over again.
The very moment I walked away from my toxic relationship a few years back I did everything
I could to learn about narcissism, and failed and toxic relationships, psychology and so much more
I was absolutely determined to never repeat the process over again, and to never attract such a
person into my life either. I believe I succeeded... every rejection and failure we have is a teacher,
but only if we're willing to swallow our pride and ego and learn from it.... learn from where we
went wrong, why it went wrong, how we can prevent it going wrong the best we can moving forward
Stop wasting time with the wrong women by learning from your past experiences! Learn
why it didn't work out, why you attracted that person, why you got rejected... what is it about you
that keeps attracting the wrong types? The wrong people? What ideas that are going on inside of
you are making things worse externally? Be careful who you listen to... We can be very impressionable
as men especially when we're frustratedly single or going through a long dry spell.
We might gravitate to influencers online telling us what we want to hear.... they'll say "Dating is a
waste of time, the Modern Woman is broken, men have it so hard in life..." and thus it triggers
us and we may go on a rampage treating all women the same and then possibly becoming narcissistic!
We may listen to men who are happily married in relationships on how to go out and find a
woman they'd say "Go to Yoga that's where I met my wife....Try speed dating... I'll just go to a nightclub!"
My advice here is find out what specifically works for you...
and be careful who you listen to... the reason why is you start adopting the wrong mindset with
listening to the wrong people and therefore you'll attract the wrong type of women.
Another reason is if you start doing what works for others you might get frustrated and angered
by your results and again you might attract the wrong woman once more! So find your strengths, find
your weaknesses, work out a plan and strategy that works for you... maybe take others advice
with a pinch of soul to weed out time wasters and try and attract better matches in general
There's a lot of advice out there and of course I'm only sharing what's worked for me.
I've been with the wrong person and I've successfully transitioned to the right person
You can do the same by adopting your own healthy mindset strategy and approach and
learning from all sorts of advice online and offline along the way!