Outside the box, jump out of the box to see the world
Today we come to talk about the ENFJ type in the 16-person MBTI personality
ENFJ focuses on external people and the world, and is the darling of social occasions (E)
At the same time they value the meaning and opportunities behind the world's appearance (N)
On this basis, the judgment made by ENFJ is full of humanity and emotional care (F)
At the same time, ENFJ will organize their work and life in an organized and orderly manner (J)
NF types will instinctively focus on the growth of human nature and are sensitive to human nature
But the attitudes of the four types of NF personality to these issues are very different
ENFP and INFP do not like closed answers
For example, ENFP focuses on the possible experience in life
INFP keeps asking the meaning of life
In their eyes, these issues are often inconclusive
Tend to retain space for discussion
And ENFJ and INFJ will tend to all kinds of life's major questions, all have "correct answers"
For them, these answers are faith or belief
But ENFJ and INFJ have different directions of energy flow
The INFJ's circulation method is:
Explore the inner heart → Use the inner faith to guide the outside world →
Get new feedback to continue exploring yourself
The ENFJ cycle method is:
Socializing, full contact with the outside world, and information exchange →
Adjust yourself → to better interact with the world
The starting point and purpose of the two are fundamentally different
ENFJ is very sensitive to dynamic factors in the external environment
They have a relationship with their surroundings in what happened
This is how ENFJ learns and grows
ENFJ started to develop their interpersonal skills very early
In fact, ENFJ's self-awareness is largely generated in the social process
After everyone who has contacted, ENFJ's self-concept will gradually strengthen
ENFJ's energy cycle from outside to inside and from inside to outside
It's like growing bamboo
Absorbing external nutrients while cultivating your integrity
Back feeding the land underneath, standing there is a landscape
The growth of ENFJ is clearly visible
In the growth of experience
ENFJ will clearly show its tough and tenacious quality
This often gives the impression that ENFJ dares to fight
A mature ENFJ must have experienced the ups and downs of life
Some setbacks may make others feel helpless, but ENFJ may be reborn from the fire
ENFJ's arc-shaped growth of characters makes them a common protagonist in literary works
Such as the dragon mother in the song of ice and fire
Her growth path adds a strong appeal to the entire work
Viserys Targaryen: I give my queen, and he gives me an army. Veserys. Targaryen: I give him the queen, he gives me the army
Daenerys Targaryen: I do not want to be his queen Daenerys Targaryen: I do not want his queen
Daenerys Targaryen: I want to go home Daenerys . Targaryen: I just want to go home
Viserys Targaryen: So do II want us both to go home Veserys. Targaryen: I also think, I hope both of us can go home
Viserys Targaryen: But ... they took it from us. So tell me sweet sister Vaceris. Targaryen: But they occupied our home, tell me, my sister
Viserys Targaryen: How do we go home? Weselis Targaryen: How do we go home ?
Daenerys Targaryen: I do not know Daenerys Targaryen: I do not know
Viserys Targaryen: Now you've woken the dragon! Weselis Targaryen: You awakened the dragon !
Daenerys Targaryen: I am a Khaleesi of the Dothraki! I am the wife of the great Khal and I carry his son inside me. The next time you raise a hand to me will be the last time you have hands! Daenerys. Tangerian: I am the wife of King Dolac, and now I have his baby in my stomach. Next time you hit me with your hand again, you will no longer have that hand!
ENFJ believes that the world has rules and answers
There are also natural charms and emotional links with others
They are most often called educators
ENFJ believes that the most meaningful thing is to share the various life principles they have discovered with others
If you can become a life tutor for others, it will bring a strong sense of accomplishment to ENFJ
The combination of the four dimensions of ENFJ is extroverted and sharp, delicate and decisive
ENFJ is the most unpretentious type of sixteen personality
No one would object to this statement
They always behave gracefully, relax freely and gracefully
Can not only effectively convey your own position, but also take care of the emotions of others
They exude aura of truth, care and altruism
People are often impressed by their powerful personality
It is natural and simple for ENFJ to communicate with people
Their eloquence often reaches fascinating levels
ENFJ can quickly understand others and build relationships with others
Because of their love for interpersonal relationships and strong social wisdom
ENFJ can easily develop a rich social relationship network
And they often live in the center of this network
If you must rank for EQ in the sixteen personality
Other types are hard to get out of ENFJ
Although ENFJ's growth process may be ups and downs
There is even a history of "bad students"
But ENFJ actually really likes the mainstream values ​​of society
Many successful ENFJs have staged "The Prodigal Son Turn Back" episodes
This also strengthens their recognition of mainstream outstanding quality
Such as being strong, confident, honest, etc.
They will spare no effort to promote their stories and feelings to everyone
No matter what industry they are in, they can reflect the shadow of an educator
Like other types, the opposite of these qualities of ENFJ is their shortcomings
ENFJ's altruistic feelings
Sometimes they are overly involved in other people ’s problems or emotions
ENFJ also trusts others almost without reservation
Fortunately, their trust and sincerity often encourage people around them to be frank and sincere
But if you are not careful, ENTJ's excessive optimism about others may exceed her control
Especially if ENFJ puts energy into inappropriate people and things
Their disappointment is corresponding, but it will be stronger than others
Tyrion Lannister: There is something you need to know Tyrion Lannister: There is something to let you know
Daenerys Targaryen: Someone has betrayed me. Daenerys Targaryen: Someone betrayed me.
Lannister Tyrion: Yes . Tyrion Lannister: Yes
Daenerys Targaryen: Jon Snow Daenerys. Targaryen: It ’s Jon Snow .
Due to own experience
ENFJ will think that others can be as tough as they are
But this is often an illusion
The growth method of interacting with the world is effective for ENFJ
In their eyes, the whole world as a whole has its own meaning
This is often ENFJ ’s own opinion, but they are convinced of it
And trying to convince others of this model
ENFJ likes to educate others through persuasion
For them, persuasion and education are the same thing
This does not guarantee that everyone will resonate
The influence that ENFJ people need to recognize may be limited
Also learn to manage your expectations of others
"Holding Baobaotai" may be dismissed by ENFJ, but may be useful
People with ENFJ type tend to be too concerned about the emotional needs of others
So that they will ignore some other important needs
This may prevent ENFJ from making the right decision
And for abstract and complex problems
ENFJ tends to listen to recognized authorities
Reliance on officially recognized opinions, such as authoritative media or magazines
As their criterion and basis for judging things
This makes ENFJ, who is in a high position, cannot really understand people's needs
ENFJ type people love to accept praise, but are very vulnerable to criticism
May be frustrated or even flustered
Criticism will make them flinch and make them feel that they are not appreciated
Try not to care about others' evaluation
Allows ENFJ type people to obtain useful information from positive criticism
ENFJ is a type that has its own protagonist aura. May ENFJ shine and the aura will not disperse