Think about it… at the club, at the bar, at school, at the super market, on the street…
we’re ALL guilty of it.
You make eye contact with a sexy girl and BOOM it’s like your body has been poisoned
and you lose any ability to act rationally.
You freeze up and don’t know what to say and so, like 99% of guys, you do absolutely
nothing.
The girl looks at you, makes eye contact, holds eye contact, maybe even smiles at you,
and you still do nothing.
C’mon!
That’s some pussy shit!
I’m gonna be totally honest…
I didn’t wanna make this video... but I’ve gotten so many comments from you guys asking
this.
“Zeus!
What do I do when a girl looks at me?!”
Well the answer is simple.
What the hell do you want to do when a girl looks at you?
If you wanna do nothing, then do nothing.
If you want to talk to her, then talk to her.
It’s really that simple.
This is the perfect example of overthinking the minute details and using them as an excuse
to not take action and not approach that girl.
Now, i’m gonna show you exactly what I do, step-by-step, so that next time you make eye
contact with a 10 out of 10 babe, you won’t have the excuse of “But I didn’t know
what to do.”
And I have a MAJOR announcement that I’ll talk about at the end of the video, trust
me you ain’t gonna wanna miss this.
But more on that, later.
Step 1: Look back at her.
Yes, look back at her.
Simple enough, right?
Told you this stuff is easy.
Step 2: Hold eye contact until she looks away.
Don’t do the look away and then look back to see if she’s still looking thing.
That shows major weakness and lack of confidence.
Now it’s a very natural thing to do so don’t beat yourself up over it if you do it at first…
it’s something that you need to train yourself out of.
And the way you can practice this is to just make eye contact with people you walk past
and don’t look away until they do.
You don’t have to be aggressive about your eye contact either, it’s quite the opposite.
Just look at someone and don’t break eye contact until they do or you can either look
away and don’t look back unless you have a reason to.
What I do to practice is I smile, nod and keep eye contact, or you can smile, nod, and
then look away.
Basically, you want to train yourself to look when you want to look, and look away when
you don’t want to… you’re training yourself to be intentional about how you control your
attention and eye contact.
Think about how someone in authority looks around a room, they are not afraid to look
around fully and without hesitation.
Think about how your school principal walks through and looks around a room, or how a
cop walks around a room when they enter.
They look wherever they’d like without any sense of hesitation or restriction.
Eye contact with people you don’t know can be uncomfortable but by practicing it and
feeling comfortable, it gives you a very real advantage and solid foundation of confidence
to lean on when you go ahead and are ready to talk to the girl.
If it’s a girl you’re into, I recommend doing a smile and nod when you first catch
her looking.
This can gauge the girl’s interest if you’re scared to approach immediately.
The smile and nod is NOT an excuse to not approach, it’s only to communicate to her
that you’re normal and understand social cues.
Then from there, it’s a lot more natural and acceptable when you walk up and start
conversation.
Bonus tip: You will without a doubt stand out more and have more girls looking at you
and checking you out if you’re the best dressed guy in the room.
So if you’re already into style and like putting in the extra effort, then it can win
you some extra bonus points.
But this video is about what to do when a girl looks at you, not what to wear, so we
won’t focus too much on that.
Besides, learning the core principles of game are massively more important than what you
wear, although it still does make a difference and is important.
Step 3: If you make eye contact with a girl and lock eyes more than twice, you can take
that as your cue to go and approach her.
A lot of people will just eye fuck each other from across the room all night and never have
it go anywhere.
Girls will almost never approach guys, very rarely does this happen.
So rare in fact, that I would never count on it, if you’re serious about getting results.
Honestly, if I make eye contact with a girl at all, it takes me 3 seconds to decide whether
she’s hot or not and then boom I’m already full mom power walking my godly ass over there
to strike up a conversation with her.
Even if you’re unsure if she’s hot or she only looks “kinda cute,” go up and
approach her anyways.
You’ll get a great look at her and be able to tell immediately once you approach her
and talk to her.
Too many guys use that as an excuse, and say “oh well I’m not gonna approach because
she’s just not that cute.”
Like yeah OK bro, whatever you need to keep your ego intact.
It’s not because you were a huge pussy and too scared to approach her, no not at all!
Step 4: Execute the approach.
Depending on how confident I’m feeling and how the girl seems, I’ll even say something
that immediately assumes attraction when I approach, a line I learned from a friend of
mine that I like to use is saying, “Hey, I saw you eye-fucking me from across the room
so I thought I’d come say hi.”
Boom conversation started.
And the good thing about a line that assumes attraction like this is that the conversation
is started with excellent framing.
It comes from the frame that she was checking you out and you approached because of HER
interest in YOU.
Sometimes when you approach a girl, it can be giving away a lot of your power in the
dynamic because you’re obviously there to talk to her because you’re interested and
somewhat already sold on her, giving her the option to choose to keep it going or reject
you.
There are ways around this which I go more in-depth about in other videos, BUT this phrase
alone is a good way of avoiding giving your power away.
The only caveat here is that if the girl seems more shy and a little more introverted than
a typical really confident, hot girl, I don’t recommend using this line.
In this case, you would come up with something else to say.
It’s always incredibly important to calibrate your approach and what you say based on who
you’re talking to.
Really hot, more stereotypically confident girls will shit test you and be more able
to take teasing and things like push pull.
Meanwhile, a girl who could be just as hot but is more shy and introverted won’t react
well to those sorts of things.
What to do when she looks at you is just the beginning.
What to do, what to say, and how to build attraction with the girl after this point,
are the deciding factors of whether or not you’re gonna get with that girl or not.
This would take literally hours and dozens of videos to break down and explain.
And for most guys who don’t even know what to do when the girl looks at them in the first
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